Thread: i dont know what to do anymore

Originally Posted by JubesInquest

Sounds like you've been put on a "Do Not Call" list!

Don't call this guy; don't go chasing around after him. Leave him alone, just like he obviously wants you to do.

He tells you that you "need to grow up" ... from the way this sounds, it's more like he finds you annoying.


Just leave the person alone. Don't call and don't worry about if they make it to work or not.
Invest more time in YOURSELF! Find things for YOU to do so that you're not spending your every waking moment on this guy. He acts like he's tired of you and he shows you more than he tells you--- just look at how he acts!

Go out with your friends! Go to the movies! Go out to dinner! There's plenty of things for you to do and see.

I absolutely agree with this....don't waste you time TELLING him you think you should spend time apart, he don't care, just do it. ...and you may want to re invest in your family and friends opinion of him... remember sometimes it's easier to see things from the outside looking in then from the inside, I am sure they are just concerned for you and maybe with reason, don't blow them off so quickly... but him.... move on and don't look back. find someone who will enjoy your playfulness, their out there.

Originally Posted by bratney

Well from the last time i wrote on here. I didnt call him and took a little time for me. We did go out last sunday (me,him, his 2 brothers, my brother, his sister and two cusions) we had wwe tickets and my brother was dieing to go. That went all well and good we had a nice time together. he came by my house on monday before he headed back home that went all well and good no fighting just having a nice time together. This week he has called and wanted to talk which was ok. He begged and pleaed with me last night to come by his house and drop off his sisters present he left at my house. I really didnt mind going i was bored and had nothing to do. I headed up there, while i was there he told me he didnt want to know what life was like with out me(which i thought was sweet) and the last half hour i was there he started to get ill ( iguess bc he was sick) and so i headed out on my way to the car his dog got in the way so i moved her out of the way and he thought i kicked her and got very mean with me. Today i sent him a text joking with him that he got me sick and he replyed saying i make him sick very day. I have no idea where that came from. He said i was a b*** when i came down, i dont think i was but i said i was sorry if i was. He told me not to say sorry it was just who i am.
I just dont understand where he can be so nice one minute and the be so hateful the next. i think im just going to stop taking his phone calls. I dont know what his deal is.

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See how this dude acts like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde?
Is he bi-polar or something? Man, he flips in a matter of seconds!

I don't know if he really is bi-polar or not, but you need to leave this guy ALONE!! It's all well and good you and your family and his family went out together, but never go anywhere or be alone with him. He didn't even ASK you if you kicked the dog... it sounds like he simply accused you and called you a _____ then told you that you make him sick everyday ... ????

If that's not verbally abusive, I don't know what is!!

Don't take his calls, don't go visiting him, don't text him ANYMORE!
You're only asking for more hurt and weirdness from this guy. He's got issues you don't need to deal with.