Nearly broke it off last night/this morning. Having a lot of issues. He drinks too much...gets complusive and won't stop when he gets started with the mixed drinks.
Also, you remember my need for info and to find out masturbation issues? Well, he now denies he has masturbated in the last two months...denies watching porno in the same amount of time. <sigh> I hate feeling like I am being lied to.
I wish I had some answers.....what to do, what to do. Sometimes I just want to chuck it all.....

you did not ask for any advice so i won't give you any..not sure there is much i can say to make you feel better anyway..i too dislike being lied to more than any other thing i can think of..at least be up front about things instead of insulting my intelligence by lying..alcohol can be such a big problem in so many people's lives..men (mostly) just don't seem to know where to draw the line..sometimes i think that men think being drunk some how excuses their behavoir..i have maybe three or four drinks in an entire year; i just don't like the taste of alcohol except for those wine or vodka coolers..i remember once dating a girl who was getting into the christmas spirit a little to early in the day..that night we were scheduled to go to a xmas party..well she was so drunk by the time the party started that i took her home and went by myself..i came home about 1 am, went into the bathroom only to find blood all over my sink..she had broken a window, got into the house, was asleep in my bed..i woke her up, took her home, and never called her again..

Thanks. Well, I almost always like to hear/read peoples' comments and thoughts.
That was some story. Ick. Well, yeah...my SO gets dangerous and potentially dangerous too. Falling down some stairs would be very bad. ACK. He did fall down in the bathroom backwards into the tub a few months ago. <sigh> Luckily, he does not drink mixed drinks (which he loads with many shots) very often.
As for the truth,...I think I know what it is....but he thinks it's none of my business, no matter what I say. I tell him it is because I don't want to think he likes masturbation more than making love...or that he masturbates so much he doesn't feel like making love. Those issues are important.