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Old 03-21-2008, 09:32 AM
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My b/f and I got into an argument and he told me that I am being very pushy and it's scaring him. He told me that he wants us to date and see where the relationship goes and that he's not ready for marriage right now. I asked him if he would forgive me and he said yes and that he doesn't hold grudges. He told me that he's not mad at me but very disappointed. He said that I'm acting psychotic and that I have him running. I told him I was sorry and I would try not to be pushy. He said you told me this the last time. I asked him if he would give me another chance and he said "I'll try". He said he doesn't think it's going to change and I said what if it does and he said then i'm gone and i said well what if it doesn't happen again and he said well great. I told him that I feel insecure and he said he's told me over and over that I don't need to feel insecure I have no reason to and that he's told me this over and over. I asked him if we could get past this and he said "I'll try" and I asked him if he would give me another chance and he said "I'll try". Does this mean yes or no about giving me another chance?
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Old 03-21-2008, 11:43 AM
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My b/f and I got into an argument and he told me that I am being very pushy and it's scaring him. He told me that he wants us to date and see where the relationship goes and that he's not ready for marriage right now. I asked him if he would forgive me and he said yes and that he doesn't hold grudges. He told me that he's not mad at me but very disappointed. He said that I'm acting psychotic and that I have him running. I told him I was sorry and I would try not to be pushy. He said you told me this the last time. I asked him if he would give me another chance and he said "I'll try". He said he doesn't think it's going to change and I said what if it does and he said then i'm gone and i said well what if it doesn't happen again and he said well great. I told him that I feel insecure and he said he's told me over and over that I don't need to feel insecure I have no reason to and that he's told me this over and over. I asked him if we could get past this and he said "I'll try" and I asked him if he would give me another chance and he said "I'll try". Does this mean yes or no about giving me another chance?

It means you need to give him some time to think. If you keep asking him its gonna make it worse. You also need to take sometime to think about who you are and what caused all of this. He feels caged and needs to breathe at which time I think you should do the same.

Take it slow and take the time to think as well as he needs to do.
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