I remember as a child, when i was given advice, i'd buck and rebel, not only think, you are wrong but state it.

When asking for advice sometimes it may not be totally what you want to hear or a reader on a forum may read a bit more into what you may be feeling, she may even be right but told, you are wrong!. As they rebel and do not want to hear.

But to judge, whether sexual or other avenues every single person on this earth has made a or many mistakes, it's how we grow and learn.

It is what makes us stronger and better at the next venture of simular capacity.

Opinions, beliefs, they also have their own place for existance.

A kind soul will see past any wrong doing or bad decision as a move in the right direction when realised no matter what that doing or decision was, as they understand the learning and growth of a human being.

I Couldn't do it thanks anyway for the help.... I appreciate it

Thank you very much for your kind words....What is it they say? Oh, I recall.....It takes one, to know one....xox

Same here. My first husband cheated on me with a girl he worked with and I to (about 3 years ago) after my second marriage went bad made the mistake of getting involved with a married man. Oh he was a smooth talker ....

Now I live every day with the fact that I got involved with him and it eats me up inside.

Right back at ya Caroline..xoxo

I feel bad for being involved with a married man. What I do not regret is what I have learned from this experience. I believe everything happens for a reason, so I'll take what I've learned and move forward.

I don't think things would have been different between he and I had he been married or not because of the kind of person he is. I have regrets but then there are things that I don't regret out of it too, but thats the lessons and the way I opened up as a person. I will know that I never have to settle for being second in another man's life again and that I did learn alot from this experience even if it wasn't all good.

In my situation he turned on me to save his own hide. When his wife found out he told her that I wouldn't leave him alone, that I kept calling him etc. etc. It was quite the opposite, all through the relationship I would always bring up not seeing each other any more because of the quilt I felt of him having a family.

So it was easy for me to let go of the relationship because the hurt of loosing him (or at least what I thought I had) quickly turned to anger because of his betrayal.

Oh i don't blame you i'd be mad too...the one I was with would do the same thing. Thats the kind of person he is..I know he would. Actually I think many years ago when he was having one of his many flings, he did that to a girl. She then inturn sent his wife pictures of them together and conversations they had had on msn and emails. The wife still stayed and i'm sure he blamed it all on the other chickie.

Id be mad too. When I start missing him terribly I am thinking of the things he said to me when I found out he had cheated on me as well and that it was my fault he did it, cause I was fighting with him, cause he knew I had someone else too(which I did not) and the classic because he was lonely with me being 8 hours away. So he even tried to blame his cheating on me. PFFFFFFFFFTTTTTTTTT . Idiot!! LOL