I started on this forum to get help and opinions for a problem I was and am still having. I have gotten alot of help and opinions, just as I asked for. I've also gotten judged, which I kind of expected would happen as well. What bothers me is how can someone chose to judge another person when they don't know that person or aren't fully aware of all the circumstances surrounding the issue at hand.
I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinon and should feel free to give it as well. But I do not feel another person should judge another, it is not their place to do so.
I have allowed for people to make me feel as though I am not a good person because of choices that I have made thru out my life. But I am a good person regardless of what others think of me. I got involved in a relationship that I knew was wrong from the start but regardless I did it. I fell hook, line and sinker for a smooth talking man who hurt me terribly. Am I saying its all his fault? No I am not. Am I only playing the victim? No I am not. But we were both wrong, but it seems some think I am the worse person for being involved with a married man. Both are guilty, not just one.
I am only looking for words of guidance and help for what I am going thru as are others that join this forum. I do not want to start trouble here, I only wanted to state my opinion as well in hopes that those that have chose to judge me would rethink that.
"LAUGH WHEN YOU CAN, APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU SHOULD, LET GO OF WHAT YOU CAN'T CHANGE, TAKE CHANCES, GIVE LOVE AND HAVE NO REGRETS, LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE...ANYTHING BUT HAPPY!!!"