Thread: Do I Hang On Or Move On?

I sent my man this message after an arguement we had: All I can do is tell you that I'm sorry and ask you to give it another chance. I can't make you all I can do is tell you. All I have ever tried to do is be good to you b/c I care. I am wondering where I stand with you. I'm asking you to please let me know either way if it's over with us. I'm wondering what's up and I would hope and believe that you would tell me. You told me last Wednesday that you would try to give me another chance. I asked you about if it didn't happen again and you said great but if it did you were gone. I understand that. So I was thinking/hoping that we were gonna try to get past this, but since I have tried to call you several times and you haven't answered my calls, I don't really know what to think. I want you to do what it is you want to do. If continuing to see me is what you want or don't want please let me know. I will not push you b/c neither of us are ready for anything but dating. I know I have said this before but given the chance honey I will show you and I won't let you down EVER again. I am a good person and would not do anything in the world to hurt you only to help. Please let's move on and I promise I will not be pushy. I promise I will not let you down ever again. But if you don't want to I understand and will move forward with my life. Please let me know.
AND HIS RESPONSE WAS: I just need some space to figure things out . I think that you need to do the same . Life is to short and I'm done arguing with everyone . You do whatever makes you happy . You are a good person , but I'm not sure that
I'm the one for you . You shouldn't have to change who you are, to please me . Maybe later , when I figure things out .......We can talk .

YOUR HONEST ADVICE PLEASE.

What was the fight over in the first place? that would help a lot.
If it was something petty and silly....then I think he is trying to let you go as easy as possible. Trying to beat around the bush about it, not wanting to sound harsh or hurt your feelings.
if the fight was over something major...then he may honestly may just need the time and space. In which case, you must give it to him. I'm the same way. When I'm angry with my fiance, I need the time to think things thru. I have a habit of jumping the gun and making the fight 10x worse when I don't have time to think and process the whole incident.

What ever the case may be......you need to relax. You can't change what has happened. It's so much easier said then done, this I know.
Don't jump to any conclusions just yet.