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Old 04-14-2008, 04:10 PM
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Have any of you been with your husbands since you were young teenage and naive?
And do you have any regrets like never being with anyone else or having more life experiences?
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Have any of you been with your husbands since you were young teenage and naive?
And do you have any regrets like never being with anyone else or having more life experiences?
The only thing sometimes with marrying young and feeling the way you are speaking, is that you married out of "thinking" you were in love and later establish that you are best friends and love that person but have lost what ever it was that was there at the beginning, so you "lust" after what if, what would it be like.

My brother and sister married at 17, they are 45, ups and downs but true love. Neither would ever consider it.

I have experienced different relationships and then married at 36, but they are different personalities, different shapes and sizes, but frankly it's all about constant desire, lust, trust, love, passion that makes it a whole.

Never found it, but now i have, if it works and if not, i know exactly what i want.... and how it would work for the rest of my life.

Sometimes you have to go backwards to go forwards if you are in a committed relationship.

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Have any of you been with your husbands since you were young teenage and naive?
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Ah hah, I have saved the best for last. I have been with my husband since I was a teenage. I guess this is what you would call 19...Truthfully between you and I, I believe I was naive until I was about 35. But I have finally grown up....

I will take the next part of your question backwards...Actually, this goes along with how I think.. Before we were married I had an affair with my boss. I was engaged and this affair was just short of intercourse...Actually very short... I don't know what I was thinking but I was horny. I adored my sailor but he was away and I was in heat. I had dated many, many gorgeous men with two proposals (wedding) but this was a period in my life where the hormones were just plain wild. So I threw caution to the wind and ventured into a place with a married man that I had no right to be. I still shake my head wondering how I made something wrong, something right, yet the other side of my head says, hey girl, if you did not do that you could have been too hot to trot...And that side of my head is right.

And for the toughest question of all, do I have any regrets for never sleeping with another man.....Shall I be truthful or shall I lie....Seeing I told Jessica I would always be truthful here, I will be...Let's face it you guys don't know me from Hillary Clinton so why not....YES....many, many times I have wondered what it would have felt to have another man make love to me...Feel another piece of manhood invade me, wonder what an uncircumcised man looked like in real life, how would an 11 inch stick of dynamite feel.....So you have my answser....BUT saying this do I have any regrets, lord no....I am married to my soul mate...I adore him and he adores me......but honey, I can dream can't I.....Much luck and love, Caroline
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Have any of you been with your husbands since you were young teenage and naive?
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I'm a man. I met my wife 27 years ago, she was the first person I dated. I've been with one other woman (before we were married, and while we were broken up for other issues).

I do regret not having more "experiences", but I think that is because I put a misty, hollywood-like face on relationships. I miss the fantasy of having relationships with other women. From observing my friends' experiences though, I don't think I really miss the reality.
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