i was with my ex for 2 years, we split up a year and half ago, we have both been in other relationships since.

we had a bad break up and we didnt speak for several months

We get on ok now, and latley he has been lets say flirting with me

the other night he asked me to come over,and i went

we was kissing and things, then i went to the toilet when i came back in he said that i had to go he had to go to his mates..


since then we havent spoke,

im confused at why he got me over then all of a sudden it was like he brushed me off

Sounds to me like a not bad sort of bloke.

Seems like he had intentions but let them slide as you were both girlfriend and boyfriend at one stage and i'm guessing he doesn't want that anymore, or again, so let it slide after thought, in those few minutes you were gone.

Could have been worse, you could have gone there and then not spoken to you again, now that would have been much worse.

I think when you move on from relationships that is exactly what you, do move on.

Emotions come into play especially for a woman if you get back together for a night, most times as a woman, you expect that you are "back on"..

As i said, i don't think he wanted to re-enter a relationship but obviously recalls the good times that you had together..

Memories are grand... Keep them and keep looking for MR RIGHT....

CW

yeah i didnt want anything more from him either though justthe sex..

thats probably what it was then him thinking id want more

even though i had told him i had no feelings for him in that way

It always seems easier to get it from your ex, doesn't it, funny there. There is familuarity and safety and so you can be yourself.

But reality is regardless of what you say to a man, or how old he is, our little emotions play tricks in the end, and you'd be asking for another one with a week, then the week after, or a day after, It's just life, once you've had it, you want more!!!!

He probably worked that bit out...

Dangerous territory unfortunately... Your still committed somehow, and that stops the cycle of moving forward, your still in "relationship" just sexual only. Then if he sees a female he likes, you'd be complaining if you rang him and he said, can't i'm no a date...

Complicated!

Hope that makes sense...

CW

yeah it makes sense thats what we was like for a bit when we split up.. still sleeping together but me wanting more .that was nearly 2 years ago

hes lets say a slag.. , but it didnt bother me abt the other girls now i was still willing to have sex as thats all i wanted (as i havent had it since i split with my current ex 2 months ago lol)


but i did feel gutted when i got home that i didnt get any sex! lol

"Anticipation/expectation" ****, lol....

Hey, you know if he is a "slag", be wary also you know...... you know....

Never mind, a new man will come soon, i feel it in my bones....... and he'll be a great catch.....



Take care.

CW