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View Poll Results: Will you pray to Jesus for me?
Will you please at least pray for me now? 1 33.33%
Will you please pray for me consistently? 2 66.67%
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Old 05-07-2008, 05:46 AM
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THIS LADY DID NOT MAKE THIS POST TO QUESTION GODS EXISTANCE, INSTEAD OF THINKING ONLY OF YOURSELF, WHICH YOU ALWAYS DO . HAVE SOME COMPASSION . YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF,.
/bangs head on the table

Do you want to stop chasing me around the forums shouting at me? You've already said this fifty times, time to shut up already.

All I said was, if you'd like to reread it, is that she shouldn't RELY on god to fix all her problems, she should fix them herself. Can you tell me I'm wrong?
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Old 05-07-2008, 05:57 AM
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We haven't heard from you for a while?

Are you ok?

How are things?

You know, battles are battles, don't they come out in all sorts for forms? lol.

So, where they come from, when, why, how, we can't help that, they come!

I look forward to the next poster that shares you wish..

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Well, of course, let's not get away from the thread and whom she is , what she believes in.

Sorry, irrespective, agree with PF.

This lady has not been back.

She wanted assistance and advice and blessing.

I am hoping she will see past this and someone else will post and it will remain in the way in which she threaded?

Sure, i'm deep, so?

When it's wrong, it's wrong, end of story....

Another thread perhaps? A new one? Even better..... One we can all call our own and debate together....

Sorry, sure i think with "heart" but a "spade is a spade" if you know what i mean....

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HI CH - i am not surprised the lady has not posted back - when somebody is suffering or is in need of some assistance in any way at all , only the most cold hearted, especially when asked please pray for me , would post with religious hatred ...this post was pertaining to the lady not AWF opinions about religion .

AwF wants to blame every disaster , cyclones,sunamis, cancers, Aids , depression, his own unhappy state of mind , everything on god , revelling in misery of his own making ! this is an ongoing thing ...i have said before that he is in danger of being one of the very people he claims to despise ...AWF ...quote ...my girlfriend was a Christian...UNTIL I CHANGED ALL THAT ...and MADE HER!! see the ERROR ??? of her ways !!!! . well AWF ...your girlfriend has 'seen the light' and she moved on ...away from your controlling , brainwashing , nasty ways ..
Lets hope she goes back to being the strong woman, with a life of her own, like the woman she was before she met him ...its the best move she made ...

Its well known , and it has happend many times to people who claim to hate any religion or religious people , priests, vicars ect ect ...CALL on those people on thier deathbeds or as soon as they get sick ...and no matter how that person has been in thier lives - even if they are filled with hatred ...they are ALWAYS there for them ...

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Well, here's the score.

Let's debate, ?

What shall we call it?

Who's going to start it?

But shall we get of of this particular thread?

I think so...

I'm staying awake, mmm. Let's go General and call it, let's debate?

I'll start it...

I agree, don't get me wrong, but well let's not hyjack, i'm kind of learning it's not the way to go for many reason.....

Much everything x

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PF, you're like an annoying mosquito that somehow survives after you swat it with a towel.

Religious hatred? I said she needed to grow her own strength instead of relying upon something intangible... Is that hatred? Did I say what I said to hurt her, or was it tough love?

You assume so much about my life, to bring personal attacks into things, when it only shows how talentless you are at discussion and debate. Whatever you think you do know about my life, you have shown yourself to be inevitably wrong, I wonder if it's because your memory isn't so good, if you can't read (seeing that you can't spell or use grammar) or if you are so blinded by a pathetic rage that reason and rationality left you long ago.

Once again, to address your misinformed facts of my life, I left my girlfriend, not the other way around. Hopefully yes, she will grow and become stronger, and I wouldn't see religion as a part of that. She's angry about being brainwashed into it in the first place.

As for your continuing dribble to try and justify your brothers trade - you have no way of saying that in the worst case I'll go crawling to a priest or whatever, it's like that terrible phrase "There are no athiests in foxholes". By assuming that our faith is so weak that we'll cry out for help, you are in fact insulting the Athiest 'faith' far more than anything I ever said - but for some reason that's acceptable.

I'm getting pretty tired of feeling like I have to respond to your petty digs at my personal life, so why don't you just give it a break eh? You hate me, believe it or not I GET IT. I don't live in a cave on the moon under my bed. If you really want to discuss my point of view on something, fine, but stick to the discussion at hand if you could. And not derail every thread I post in with your CAPITALISED OMG IM SHOUTING nothingness responses. And stop making things up, remember what I said about your brother? I said "I don't give a **** about him", not "**** him". If you really really really want to attack me, then please just PM me, and then I can just delete it and ignore it, which also allows you to work out whatever anger you feel rising in yourself.

Is that an acceptable compromise?
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PF, you're like an annoying mosquito that somehow survives after you swat it with a towel.

Religious hatred? I said she needed to grow her own strength instead of relying upon something intangible... Is that hatred? Did I say what I said to hurt her, or was it tough love?

You assume so much about my life, to bring personal attacks into things, when it only shows how talentless you are at discussion and debate. Whatever you think you do know about my life, you have shown yourself to be inevitably wrong, I wonder if it's because your memory isn't so good, if you can't read (seeing that you can't spell or use grammar) or if you are so blinded by a pathetic rage that reason and rationality left you long ago.

Once again, to address your misinformed facts of my life, I left my girlfriend, not the other way around. Hopefully yes, she will grow and become stronger, and I wouldn't see religion as a part of that. She's angry about being brainwashed into it in the first place.

As for your continuing dribble to try and justify your brothers trade - you have no way of saying that in the worst case I'll go crawling to a priest or whatever, it's like that terrible phrase "There are no athiests in foxholes". By assuming that our faith is so weak that we'll cry out for help, you are in fact insulting the Athiest 'faith' far more than anything I ever said - but for some reason that's acceptable.

I'm getting pretty tired of feeling like I have to respond to your petty digs at my personal life, so why don't you just give it a break eh? You hate me, believe it or not I GET IT. I don't live in a cave on the moon under my bed. If you really want to discuss my point of view on something, fine, but stick to the discussion at hand if you could. And not derail every thread I post in with your CAPITALISED OMG IM SHOUTING nothingness responses. And stop making things up, remember what I said about your brother? I said "I don't give a **** about him", not "**** him". If you really really really want to attack me, then please just PM me, and then I can just delete it and ignore it, which also allows you to work out whatever anger you feel rising in yourself.

Is that an acceptable compromise?
Listen , it YOU who is following me around , you were on here as soon as id posted . As far as im concerned your a child with an arrogant , inflated opionion of yourself . You take drugs , and wollow in self pity ...you make disgusting remarks ..like mindless piece of excrement ...the personal attacks and the words you use all the time to me are a disgrace ...and then you say you fascinate me ...just go away ...your a horrible person and you tell lies .
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/bangs head on the table

All I said was, if you'd like to reread it, is that she shouldn't RELY on god to fix all her problems, she should fix them herself. Can you tell me I'm wrong?
Dear A.W.F> I do understand your point and many believe as you do I'm sure. I'm not so certain I gave the impression I was not trying to fix my own problems and have numerated some of the ways in previous posts. I just wanted to mention that in my belief, sometimes God gives us more than we can handle with our own human minds and abilities. Why you might ask? Because sometimes he wants us to use his strength as well. Think of that as a father, you see your child struggle to lift something, they hurt, cry, etc... there is a simple answer they simply do not have it in them at that particular place in their life to handle that task, or the mind to think it through. So, God either directly helps himself, or in some cases sends someone to help that has those abilities through life experience or maturity or whatever.

Perhaps one day because of your life experiences someone will need your encouragement and help in a way where they simply help, give resources etc... and there are other times you might just simply realize that you are not the best suited to supply their "actual" need, nor are you in the place of honor or friendship in their life that discipline talk, or debate helps - especially if the person is in some state that is similar to a child - as in they are helpless in themselves to solve certain aspects of a problem.

I am certain when your family hurts or a child on the street is about to get hit by a stray ball you would stand and watch that happen, you would reach out to help either directly or indirectly, but rarely with a loved one or anyone else in a place of shock would you "give them a talking to" or "I told you so." I mean, by still thinking of this person as a father and child or any father and any child if he is a loving father.

Perhaps this should be the end of our threads and change to new topic or same in another thread. This was not meant as a debate for religion, this was meant as a request for those who believe as I do to come along side me to encourage me through their practicing prayer with me about my ups and downs of life's very severe seasons right now.
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.........This was not meant as a debate for religion, this was meant as a request for those who believe as I do to come along side me to encourage me through their practicing prayer with me about my ups and downs of life's very severe seasons right now.
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I have been thinking about you. How are you?
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