I need prayer those who trust in Jesus. I need lots of help, I am very miserable and hurt, alone, no money, no job, lack health insurance, no friends to talk to, family is hard right now, I feel so alone. I cry so much, please, Please take my request seriously, life is terribly painful. I need intervention and see God answering prayers and blessing me and helping me. I'm really alone and defeated and tired. Please let me know you are praying for me... Miss U.

I will pray for you constantly...

And, we are friends remember, so your first prayer has been answered, you are therefore not alone, so your second prayer has been answered.

With much love.

CW

And, i just shed a tear after reading that, so know that you are thought of.

Chandlers Wish.

If god existed, why would he have allowed this situation to have happened? Why would he give my brother a terminal illness? Why would so many people in the world suffer?

You need to stop clutching at straws for things to make yourself feel better, and start looking at reality and building strength from within; a fictitious god isn't going to help you do that.

You have my best wishes, but I won't even pray in the face of certain death.

Hun, there is never an answer for that, my heart has gone out to you before when you have advised of your pain and does now.

I do not know what i believe in other than i am a giver and if i can offer a prayer, regarless i will.. And to you.

Yes, but a disorder, is well a disorder and problems and worry aren't as easy to deal with, with heartache like you and me can take, including my guy with throat cancer? We have strength but not all do! I appreciate your thoughts and i agree that who knows what lies where.

I can't work out either why and this is but a different call OF HELP, one that maybe with thoughts may bring someone to do what you have said, "make things better for herself"....

I have not been a church person, but i have seen stuff that well makes me wonder, but like you, it could be science, who knows.

I wish i could answer your questions as well....

But all i can do is say i feel. Sorry, you know me, touchy feeling person with intelligence and spark... Ok.

So, take care ANON.

CW

That was inappropriate.
Attacking somebody's religion, whether you believe it or not, is against the rules ... don't do it again.

Miss Understood, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Don't give up, stay strong. There are people here that care.

Just a thought to answer your question -

Why would he allowed this situation to have happened? Why would he give your brother a terminal illness?

Well ... think on it for a minute. IF God controlled everything what would life be? We'd be nothing less than his puppets. He created it, set things "in motion" and let it be. He gave us a free will of our own so that we could for the most part control our own lives. The things that happen in our lives and our families lives are sometimes a result of the choices we make, sometimes it is the result of choices others make. If it doesn't fall withing these two it is what you can just say as "how the chips fall".

Ok, perhaps that was a little insensitive.

But what I mean to say is, that you need to focus your energy on the changes you wish to see in your life, instead of waiting for them to happen. Don't accept fate and wallow in pity... Be proactive about fixing things - if a higher power exists, you STILL have to use your OWN power, be your own guardian angel.

Don't have friends? Make some. Poor? Get a job. Etc etc.

Do something completely crazy - life is an adventure. Get a plane ticket to India and see what happens. There's so much out there in the world, don't admit defeat and shut yourself off from it, instead revel in this marvelous world and let it be your strength.