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    Quote Originally Posted by blonde3737 View Post
    chandler, you said if he wanted her he would of been with her past 2 years.....haha where did you get 2 years...him and i have been together for almost 5 with a 3 month breakup over that period..





    I think it's simple if you would just think about it. She's saying that if he wanted her he wouldn't have gotten back with you, he would have continued his relationship with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fallen1 View Post




    I think it's simple if you would just think about it. She's saying that if he wanted her he wouldn't have gotten back with you, he would have continued his relationship with her.
    Thanks Fallen1. That's what i said.
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    nooo fallen & chandler, i understand that part but i was wondering where chandler got 2 years from???

    they didnt have a relationship either, it was a one night stand

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    is it that he tells me if she comes in the store or not....and if he doesnt tell me, is it i wonder why and then i ask him

    he is the one who tried to make me feel comfortable and said " i figured you would want to know if she talks to me or comes in" i think he is being overly nice. I told him when he first started back at this job that i would feel umcomfortable going to visit that store in that area because they both used to work their and she lives across the street and he said he completely understands and would like me to visit him at work sometimes but if i feel umcomfortable about possibly her being int heir shopping or talking to someone or just the general feeling of being uncomfortable than he completely understands if i dont want to come up

    hes very understanding

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    Quote Originally Posted by blonde3737 View Post
    nooo fallen & chandler, i understand that part but i was wondering where chandler got 2 years from???

    they didnt have a relationship either, it was a one night stand
    Still the point is the same. She's saying that IF he was interested in this woman that it wouldn't have been just a one night stand, it would have continued beyond that and he would have been with her instead of reuniting with you.

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    I really dont think all blondes are the duh stereotype but holy cow, this girl is the epitome of blonde jokes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uneeklyme View Post
    I really dont think all blondes are the duh stereotype but holy cow, this girl is the epitome of blonde jokes


    hey uneekly...i know you think im retarded or whatever but can you please keep your comments to yourself. i come on here to open up and say whatever i need to get off my chest. some people on here appreciate it and do what they can do help people who get as annoying in a situation as i am..if your going to help, please help and if not...can you please not respond with your rude comments..

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    Blonde, there really aren't any women that sypathise with your plight. There were a few, but I think you lost their support after the first couple of pages. Now you've just been winging on about your paranoid complex, without taking anyones advice or absorbing what they'd said.

    We addressed your problem, we no longer need to hear every non-event that makes you upset, because we've already deduced (and explained) that your fear is irrational. There's only so many times that you can say "get over it you crazy cow" before you get bored of it.

    The reason that people are getting less friendly is because they are tired of your ongoing and potentially never ending saga of distrust.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blonde3737 View Post
    hey uneekly...i know you think im retarded or whatever but can you please keep your comments to yourself. i come on here to open up and say whatever i need to get off my chest. some people on here appreciate it and do what they can do help people who get as annoying in a situation as i am..if your going to help, please help and if not...can you please not respond with your rude comments..
    If you don't want to "hear" publicly what people are thinking then don't post publicly for their thoughts.

    Anon and I rarely have the same views on alot of topics but we are more inclined to straight up tell you instead of sugar coat... I have to agree with him here... help was on page one, two and three... the rest is just slow boil to STFU and deal with it wouldja.

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    shut the f up and deal with it.....you guys explain in detail to me that their is nothing i need to worry about or deal with.

    i do want to hear publicly and i apologize for over questioning things..

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