Well ladies...after reading all these forums, I thought this is the place for me!
I am a 35 year old woman in a relationship with a 25 year old man. Of course this comes with challenges, but after a string of terrible relationships and a loveless marriage with an older man, I thought why not?

I never thought that I would become the "cougar"...which by the way is a terrible term...a ravenous hunter of prey that stalks and kills the innocent. I prefer to see myself as a woman who is just looking for fun. Instead I am the woman who is taking a good man away from the younger generation, who by the way are so non deserving of him. He is the most passionate man I have ever been with and will not be letting him go to easily.

We can't call you a cougar, but you can call us "non deserving of him"? lol

Cougars eh....

Well, remember that boys will be boys, and he's going to want different things than you, probably no matter how hard you try "not to let him go easily".

Just pay attention to what he says. If he doesn't talk about you as far as leaning towards something permanent in the future, he's in it for the "fun" for now.

She is just a horny woman who is not getting what she needs....Actually I give you credit for going and getting all that a woman wants...So many women hide so much and then it just explodes....Even though I always had a great sexual life all our marriage, I never knew what wild could be....Knowing it I just love it...

Two nights ago on the news I saw something that blew my mind...Three women in different parts of the country, who were all teachers, arrested in one day for having sex with students...The first was a woman of 23... I believe she was engaged but was having sex with some 14 year old guys...The next a woman of 36 who had sex with eight of the nine guys on the baseball team...The third was a 60 year old woman who was getting laid by anyone that would take her...This had been going on and now they wonder how many schools she had been doing this at....They showed all their pictures and they were nice looking women....

These women are all wrong but when I saw this I thought of my statement of the woman that keeps it all inside..She is dying for filling and satisfaction and will take it any way that she can...

What is so sad about this is the young men and boys that have been taken...They will never be the same...How can they respect a woman when one has used them like a sex machine as these women have used them...I think they will be sexually marred for life...It is really sad all around....

If you're a cougar, then I'm one too! lol! I think we can be rather pleased with ourselves that our glamorous slightly-older-woman charms have enticed handsome young men into our arms. Have a great time. Good for you!

Everytime I hear the term "cougar" I laugh. Not at the women it defines, but at the word itself and how it's used.