Thread: HELP!!! Im dating a married man

One thing you need to remember is this, you didn't get into this by yourself. He knew that he was married when he started seeing you too. You are correct that two wrongs don't make a right. I have to ask why aren't you interested in any of the single men at the office? I really don't feel that an "office romance" is good for the office. Just when you think no one else is watching, everyone is watching and they are talking too. So, if you have any girls that you go to lunch with or talk too, expect them to keep coming because they want to hear all the juicy details. I would suggest that you end this affair. If not it is very possible that his wife can find out or even that he is fooling around with some other women at the office too. Please don't fall for your the only one because and I've never felt this way about anyone lines. If that was the case then why is he married? We as strong women need to say hey look, I'm nobodies mattress and I am better than the occassional lunch dates and late night booty calls. I want more for myself and I deserve better than this. Hold your head up strong and say no and move on.

Well yeah, you are a homewrecker. But you're only 40% to blame here. Help me understand something.... How can you trust a married man? I mean, he is cheating on a person that he has already built relationship with then married, said something about remaining faithful till death do us part and blah blah blah... Now here comes you, and I'm sure he has weighed the consquences out, and has decided to risk his relationship with his wife for a relationship with you. And what type of relationship is it by the way? You talk to him at work, can only see him when he can escape his wife and child... Obviously, their needs still hold some weight, at least more than you do. However, his own desires still overide his morality, which is the heart of my question to you. How do you trust a person whom by the act of being with you demonstrates that he is not trustworthy?

Originally Posted by damd

Well yeah, you are a homewrecker. But you're only 40% to blame here. Help me understand something.... How can you trust a married man? I mean, he is cheating on a person that he has already built relationship with then married, said something about remaining faithful till death do us part and blah blah blah... Now here comes you, and I'm sure he has weighed the consquences out, and has decided to risk his relationship with his wife for a relationship with you. And what type of relationship is it by the way? You talk to him at work, can only see him when he can escape his wife and child... Obviously, their needs still hold some weight, at least more than you do. However, his own desires still overide his morality, which is the heart of my question to you. How do you trust a person whom by the act of being with you demonstrates that he is not trustworthy?

you know what every single thing you've told me i agree with 100% and thought about every single day but the hard part is just staying away. i try so much and i fail every single time.