Thread: He Says He Loves Me But He's Not In Love With Me

Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where my guy wasn't over his ex.

Okay, putting the puzzle pieces of your threads together, this is what I find:
You're young, fifteen years old, and have been with this boy for a few months.
He is unsatisfied with your sex life and puts blame on you about it even though you were a virgin before him.
He is moving literally across the country, thousands of miles away, and you want to go live with your mother because she lets you do whatever you want.
And this is my conclusion: This guy is a loser with ISSUES. He's controlling and puts you down. He's wriggling his way out of this relationship too.
Now, I'm not there with you; I don't know this guy, and I'm not you. YOU have to make the decision to value yourself and get the heck out of this relationship. You're young; you'll bounce back. Even if you were much older, my advice would stay the same because it doesn't seem like this guy values your feelings. If you were in the same airspace with a healthy interaction otherwise, it would be okay not to be "in love" yet, but that's not how it seems.
Good luck.

I think he is hinting that you need to move on. I've read your other threads and for one, you are way too young to go chasing across country after someone who is not fully commited to you. You've been dating this guy for a few weeks, now I know you've known him for years, but he's already told you that he is not in love with you. He's still in love with his ex. He doesn't kiss you when you are on top. Which seems obvious that hes not so much in the emotional attachement of making love, which is what you want, but more into having sex. So why would you want to run across country after him? Why... it's because you are too young to relize that this relationship is not at that point that it is worth it, and may never be. You want this, you want that... it's obvious that your wants are not the same as his wants and you are not going to be able to force that upon him. You might think he's the One but does he think the same about you? I'm sorry but move on. There are plenty of fine young men in CA, it's the largest density populated state in the union.