Thread: Does he really love me?

"He stays out with his friends every night" but works during the day? Then calls you at 6am or earlier...For a fair period of time, i imagine, and this has been going on for two months.

Well, firstly, you can't go out with your friends every night, get home, call you, then go to work for 2 months without feeling absolutely buggered and therefore, unable to call, need sleep, or unable to go out, too tired and unable to work absolutely exhausted. Our body can't handle that.....

Secondly, he is finding ways in which to Marry you, get over here, after 8 weeks of "talking" only... Sure you can definately fall for someone over a phone but when you meet different story. Some people can talk over a computer, telephone superbly but in real life, can't do it and nothing in common.

What's his favourite colour? What hobbies does he have? Is his photo real? Is he really a Virgin? You can't afford the Fiancee visa, so plan (B) now you are totally responsible for him financially.

A real man would say, NO i can't do that to you.

A real man would say, is there any way we can save over the next few months and you come and visit me for a week, so we can spend time together to be sure.

And, i know you deserve love want love but love, he may not be what you want when he gets here anyway and your stuck with him financially, whilst you both get on with your lives, it's not like that part is going to go away you know... Your stuck.

Whether he is for real or not is not even a question... You can't take such a risk for a guy you've never met, or being able to establish whether or not he is who he says he is.

There is SO much of this going on, it's not funny.

Vulnerable ladies, and guys, that will move the earth for LOVE, whilst the trickster is doing his tricks.

I personally think the 10 days away, is him getting some sleep, even away he could call hey....

I would definately throw it all back at him.

Well, if you love me, and want to be with me, save and come for a week holiday, or send me the money i'll save as well, and i'll come there for a week and let's meet and see how we get on first.

See what his reaction is... Off course it will be i can't afford it, we don't earn enough so fib, well i will get a Visa Card (credit) and give me two months, extra savings and i'll come over there for a week... We need to meet and make sure.

See what that reaction is.... If it's ah, well, um, no, um because....

CW