Yeah, 'cause having kids at 12 is a REALLY good idea.Originally Posted by DarkStar3
Not saying you're not entitled to your beliefs, but that kind of reasoning is just nonsensical. Much of the stuff that supposedly went on in those times would be abuse plain and simple now.
I have no advice on your original problem. I tried to promise god I'd stop masturbating back when I was young. Never could do it. Thankful every day I got over those hangups.
Well some people say that you shouldn't tempt fate, and for them I can not disagree. But I never learned nothing from playing it safe; I say fate should not tempt me. I take my chances.
Unfortnately when you ask a question and add religion into the reason why you don't, you will get "Opinion" and "debates" not judgement.
No one can Judge you, that is your belief and your call, your thoughts in how you wish for things to be for you.
As to why it only happens at night, I think Fire(m) answered very well in this regard, also possibly because your body is at peace, rest.
If I was to add in religion? I would state that the Devil is testing you, well he does like people to be led astray and doesn't want God to win, isn't that the case?
So, maybe look him in the eye whilst laying in bed and say you can't win, sorry ... never know, it may just stop.
I also understand what you are saying, different century.. Yet today girls still start their periods at 11, 12, grow breasts etc, groomed to be a woman and yes, in those days that was the case.
But, they were baby makers, they were dragged by the hair, feed me woman...
I am glad that I live in today's world not then, where you can make your own decisions.
I personally think if someone is a Virgin and wants to wait until marriage fantastic good for her.
I personally in my "opinion" believe that those whom don't know themselves have a tough time at marriage because they know nothing about their bodies.
Will the man in question be a Virgin?
Because that would be ideal for you, so you both can grow together, and at that stage is it okay to do what ever you want, therefore, watch Porn, read books, things that can show you all the things that you can get to know about yourself.
I am thinking not.
I think what people are saying is that in their eyes, "their opinon" it is okay to find yourself, but again, it is choice.
Remember, always your choice not theirs.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Go back and read the Song of Solomon.
The best way is to find one of the modern translations from the original Hebrew.
Oh, give me the kisses of your mouth,
For your sweet loving is better than wine,
Your juices are fragrant,
Your essence pours out like oil,
This is why all the young women want you.
Take me with you, let us run together!
Cover me with blossoms,
Refresh me with apples
For I am in the fever of Love.
Daughters of Jerusalem, swear to me
By the gazelles, by the deer in the field,
that you will not awaken Love until it is ripe.
I sometimes find it hard to believe this made it into the Bible.
At least it shows that there's nothing new in God's creation.
Ah well, what religions think up and what your body does are often at odds. It all about guilt and control or control through guilt. But if you buy into it you have to live with it and so does your body. The explaination that it's a systems check is pretty good one why not go with that? No guilt, if G-d designed you and designed your body to work that way, there's no problem.
Actually, if you study the bible closely, female masturbation is basically harmless. It's the wasting of the male seed that's considered the greater sin. If you restrict the discussion to the Old Testament (the body of Jewish law handed down by Moses), a healthy respect for one's natural appetites is encouraged.
Just don't commit adultery (that is, as a wife). That one's punishable by death. The underlying message is that the male patrilinieal line must be protected at all costs. The only exception is if the husband finds himself impotent or otherwise unable to father children, it's OK for the wife to have sex with the husband's brother. It's all right there in the Bible.
Richard, you very succintly, made a very valid point. The point is that people need to use their brains to interpret the Bible in today's context.
I am a Christian, and I do believe that the Bible is the word of God. However, I also believe that it was written by humans, and has been interpreted into many languages (english included) by conservative Biblical scholars over the years. I can't help but think that their interpretation is also a communication of what they believe God has ordained them to interpret from the bible (that may or may not be what God actually intended).
In a like circumstance, the Bible has been passed down from generation to generation. Each one studying it more and interpreting it more. If you don't believe that, then just look to see how many versions of the Bible were available 100 years ago versus today. An english version of the bible varies from another english version of the bible in terms of who interpreted it, and for what purpose...right? Ie, the Catholic version of the bible is different than the King James version, which is different from the NIV, and the NRSV, etc.
The reason I mention this is that the original poster is very concerned about how her body is reacting to God-created phenomenon. There is no question in her mind that God created her and designed her body to work this way. What should be questionable to her, at least from my perspective, however is whether or not the Bible can be taken straight, word for word , and whether she should "repress" or "supress" her body's natural "God designed" functions, on account of a strict acceptance of a many-times interpreted Bible.
He also said to "be fruitful and multiply".
Cheers.
There is really only one passage in the Bible that singles out female sexual behavior.
There's a long history of conflicting interpretation of this passage. There are some Bible scholars who will back up the idea that St. Paul was condemning certain Greek and Roman (Pagan) practices, mainly the fact that women were allowed to have ritualized sex during certain temple ceremonies. Imagine that, celebrating sex as a sacred act. Can't have that, now can we...Romans 1:26: For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature.
If spilling their seed is the big problem with masterbation, maybe you should all take up tantric sex.
Paul was a Roman who never met Jesus - I've never understood why his word gets such priority but this isn't the place to discuss that.
Many people still regard sex as a sacred act. If done with respect and caring it should always have a degree of the sacred or at least be a lot of fun! Religion has turned it into a duty and a chore to be performed for reproduction or steeped in guilt.
So if the hubby is impotent his brother should step up to the plate? I knew if he dies the brother should marry the widow but this adds another twist. Not an issue in my life but if people started really following this stuff the Christian Right could have a problem.
WildChild. Good point, but take it a step further. If people did start following that stuff, the Christian Right would issue another "INTERPRETATION" of the bible with that passage selectively "clarified", because they are "SURE" that this is not the way God intended it to be perceived.
This is how we got where we are in the first place. God made us sexual people. He made it feel good to us. He made it fun! If he intended for us not to masturbate, he would have made our arms shorter! Come on! He made us this way so we could "enjoy" our sexuality. Our bodies are meant to be treated nicely and enjoyed. He made them beautiful so we would feel good about ourselves and be attractive to others.
If he wanted us to use our sexuality for procreation only, he wouldn't have made it FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The vagina would have been made without a clitoris and sex would be as enjoyable as shaking hands. Guys would have the equipment but it wouldn't feel that good, so we'd have to be motivated by our ladies going into heat or something and we'd only be interested in it during those times.
That is not the case. We see eachother and it turns us on! It's MEANT TO by God! He designed us that way!
Cheers.
Forgive me, but I am confused. I had to reread the original post to see what would have brought on such a tirade. I thought this was a place for people to get help. Next thing I see is the above referenced poster attacking her religion. I guess you can only get help here if you believe the same as anon.
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