rules for three

hushDaddy · 09-14-2008, 12:10 PM

Hi ladies,
I have a bi female friend who is interested in a MFF with me and her female friend who by the way is not her girlfriend...the problem is that I have never done this before although it has being a life long fantasy...lol. I am sure there is rules and I would like to know if anyone knows what they are when having a tresome...

It's my birthday gift

**Uneeklyme** · 09-14-2008, 12:37 PM

Hmmm...
Need more input. Are you married or attached? If so, does your wife/girlfriend know about your friend and her offer/request? If your single and you are interested in something like this....I say go for it. Have fun and just roll with the punches. Realize it will change your relationship with your friend tho. In a three way with three single people the outcome is usually great. If your bi friend is in a relationship, does her partner know about it or the other friend and her partner? Make sure all parties involved or that could be affected are aware and in agreement. Otherwise, its cheating on someone and your enabling it.

**WildChild** · 09-14-2008, 04:15 PM

Never tried this and my bud and I aren't likely to. How close is this 'friend"? Are you having sex with her and she is having sex with this lady friend too? Lesbians may be lower risk for STDs but no one is rish free and Bi's are just as risky as straights. The word of the day or night is Safe Sex! You don't need any extra birthday surprises that will land you in either the STD clinic or a paternity suit.

Ogre · 09-14-2008, 07:02 PM

I think the biggest mistake in threesomes are rules. Rules are made to be broken. The only successful people at 3-somes are the ones with no rules. If you need a rule then you shouldnt do it.

**withered_rose** · 09-14-2008, 07:02 PM

Uneeklyme and wildchild are right you need to be safe about this but if all parties involved are ok with it and so are their s/o's if they have any go for it, i did it and i had a blast, just be sure to ask what they both want and make sure that everyone involved is being pleasured as well as yourself. I had fun with it and I am still friends with the couple that i was involved with, so i wish you luck.

**sTyLeRock** · 09-14-2008, 09:08 PM

the only Basic Rules i know of,

No Kissing the 3rd person,
No Contact between the 3rd person (after the act) without the other 2 people present.

hushDaddy · 09-15-2008, 10:04 AM

Thanks guys for taking the time for responding to my note…
I guess you can tell I am more nervous than excited right now.
Like being a virgin again…asking lame questions to the obvious…lol
My first priority is a safe and fun experience. I have fantasies all my
adult life about this and now its about to happen. These ladies had threesome
before so I really don’t want to come off being too slow for the punch…
or being too eager to swing.. I have no idea how to make love
to two beautiful women.

So…based on what everyone is saying…I will be safe, try not to follow
what is expected, but just roll with it and have one sweet jolly of a time.

09-14-2008, 12:10 PM	#1
hushDaddy Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2	rules for three Hi ladies, I have a bi female friend who is interested in a MFF with me and her female friend who by the way is not her girlfriend...the problem is that I have never done this before although it has being a life long fantasy...lol. I am sure there is rules and I would like to know if anyone knows what they are when having a tresome... It's my birthday gift

09-14-2008, 07:02 PM	#5
withered_rose Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: maryland Posts: 184	Uneeklyme and wildchild are right you need to be safe about this but if all parties involved are ok with it and so are their s/o's if they have any go for it, i did it and i had a blast, just be sure to ask what they both want and make sure that everyone involved is being pleasured as well as yourself. I had fun with it and I am still friends with the couple that i was involved with, so i wish you luck. __________________ Before you criticise someone walk a mile in their shoes and then that way if they get angry they will be a mile away and barefoot

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09-14-2008, 12:37 PM	#2
Uneeklyme Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Montana Posts: 305	Hmmm... Need more input. Are you married or attached? If so, does your wife/girlfriend know about your friend and her offer/request? If your single and you are interested in something like this....I say go for it. Have fun and just roll with the punches. Realize it will change your relationship with your friend tho. In a three way with three single people the outcome is usually great. If your bi friend is in a relationship, does her partner know about it or the other friend and her partner? Make sure all parties involved or that could be affected are aware and in agreement. Otherwise, its cheating on someone and your enabling it.

09-14-2008, 04:15 PM	#3
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,223 Blog Entries: 5	Never tried this and my bud and I aren't likely to. How close is this 'friend"? Are you having sex with her and she is having sex with this lady friend too? Lesbians may be lower risk for STDs but no one is rish free and Bi's are just as risky as straights. The word of the day or night is Safe Sex! You don't need any extra birthday surprises that will land you in either the STD clinic or a paternity suit.

09-14-2008, 07:02 PM	#4
Ogre Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 17	I think the biggest mistake in threesomes are rules. Rules are made to be broken. The only successful people at 3-somes are the ones with no rules. If you need a rule then you shouldnt do it.

09-14-2008, 09:08 PM	#6
sTyLeRock Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 128	the only Basic Rules i know of, No Kissing the 3rd person, No Contact between the 3rd person (after the act) without the other 2 people present.

09-15-2008, 10:04 AM	#7
hushDaddy Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2	Thanks guys for taking the time for responding to my note… I guess you can tell I am more nervous than excited right now. Like being a virgin again…asking lame questions to the obvious…lol My first priority is a safe and fun experience. I have fantasies all my adult life about this and now its about to happen. These ladies had threesome before so I really don’t want to come off being too slow for the punch… or being too eager to swing.. I have no idea how to make love to two beautiful women. So…based on what everyone is saying…I will be safe, try not to follow what is expected, but just roll with it and have one sweet jolly of a time.