i have recentley started dating a guy and we have decided to start trying out new things in our sex life. but i dont know how to give blow jobs?
can anyone help me?
pleeeaaaseeee

One possibility is to rent, or watch a porno on the internet - almost all pronos will include this. Or go to a bookstore and get one of the books on sex. Basically, "blow jobs" do NOT include blowing. Rather licking and sucking - do what seems fun and makes him make happy sounds. You do not need to deep-throat - it will just make you gag if you aren't used to it. Also ask him what he wants.

Attitude is a lot of it. Despite the name it shouldn't be a 'job', and its not a rush to the finish. Take your time - and he should take his time returning the favor!

Needless to say, use protection unless you are sure you are in a monogomous relationship.

Well, tell him you're virgin at this and need to start slowly, let him tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Do Not allow him to grab your head and try to control this. When you are both fairly experienced and he has self contol that's ok but not with a newbie. The best position is him sitting on a couch or comfy chair and you kneeling between his legs, you'll get less fatigued, have more control and great view. How clean he is and what he eats will affect scent and taste, you're going to be getting a lot of both. You can pull up all kinds of info on line about diet and taste if you find that objectionable. I wouldn't try swallowing right off, but do give him a taste when you are having sex, give yourself a taste too - fair is fair. For that matter encourage him to have a taste of himself (most guys find this a real eeeuck but if they want you to swallow it they should be willing to at least taste it) Anyway don't try to do it all at once. Do you give him hand jobs? You could start combining them, watch him masterbate, that will show you exactly what he likes. Men usually do this way faster and harder than a woman can do it for them.
His penis is your friend, it can do such lovely things for you, you want to encourage him keep doing it and return the favor. Start just exploring with your tongue, circle his balls, push your tongue fairly hard against his pernium. Suck on his balls, one at a time. Keep things wet, Go up his shaft with your tongue and lips, over the head and down the other side, get it all nice and wet. Use you hand to hold the shaft and start licking around the head, the rim is really sensitive. Let him tell you if he want you to use your hand on the shaft or not and where and how. Teeth have always been my big worry, You have to keep your lips covering them, not sucked in and curled over your teeth but well across them so it's your lips on his not your teeth. Play around with the licking, hand and teasing his balls for a while and get comfy with that, then you can try taking his head in your mouth, actually sucking can get tiring and being positioned well makes a big difference, you'll have to experiment. The more in to it you are,the less tiring and enjoyable you will find this. Really a blow job is a gift, you can enjoy seeing the look of bliss on his face and the fun of knowing you can bring him to orgasm. A lot of men (or perhaps women tire out before) don't come with a blow job, in which case it's great foreplay. One good way to get him there is to lick and suck and get him nice and wet, use your hand, then when he's ready to come, start sucking. You can swallow his cum or quietly spit it out later.

Actually if you object to the taste, holding it in your mouth will give you more of the taste than swallowing it as it comes. A few adjustments to his diet may make a big change.
Every man is different, so it's always a learning experience, have fun and don't get too hung up on it.

awww thanx alot... il definitley use your advice xx

I agree communication is the key. Let him guide you. I think that your eagerness to learn will turn him on even more.