imported_blue86

First a little about me. I have been married just over a year and have a one year old son together. All through my pregnancy my husband still wanted sex (although he has never been one to want it all the time.). After my son was born our sex life was put on hold for about a month because of my physical limitations for delivery. After I was cleared by the doctor I was ready to pick up where we left off but he on the other hand now has no desire for sex at all. At first I thought that it was because I had gained a little weight during my pregnancy but I have now lost it all and I have to all but beg to get him to even consider sex. When I do finally get him to it isn't that great because I can tell he is not in to it. I have a very high sex drive which makes this even more difficult. Please help if you can! [/SIZE][/FONT]

imported_BlackFootPride

Now im not expert but maybe it could be stress thats keeping him from wanting sex and when you and i dont mean to sound mean or offensive at all but when you constantly get on a guy about something like not wanting to have sex with you when he does give in hes already in the moodset of doing something he dosent wanna do so the performance is bound to be less than pleasurable maybe try something new that you two have never done before maybe live out a fantasy

imported_Thumper

We have been married for a little over three years and he has worked off shore most of it. We both were aware that my sex drive is much bigger than his, but it has become a problem lately. I only have him home for two weeks, if I am lucky and I want him all the time. I have tried talking to him about it, to voice my concerns, but it is not working. I try not to push, but I don't know what to do. He expects me to stay faithful, but is not wanting to step up to the plate. He would probably be happy with two or three times a week, but not me. He says its him and not me, but that is hard for me to believe. We have a great marriage otherwise. He just makes me feel like some cheap sex crazy person and all I want is him. I am afraid of what will happen if this continues. Lately when I get really horny and frustrated I will dream about having sex with strangers and like it. I don't want this to ruin my marriage and family. I have no one to talk to about this. Would someone please help me.