Hi ladies,

I've come to a point in my life where I'm starting to get bored of the techniques I use to try to make myself orgasm. My partner and I do the same things over and over again. It's just the same positions and both do oral, but it just isn't as hot as it once was. We have both agreed that maybe we open our minds to other options like using sex toys or role plays, stuff like that.

Any ideas? Anything would be great.

I think sex toys are a great idea! I like rings on my husband (vibrating ones) and love the rabbit pearl vibrator. Great combo vaginal/clitoral orgasms.

Whatever floats your boat. But some ideas:

Bondage - can be light - just tie the other person up, and do the things you would normally do, but gives it a completely different atmosphere. If you like it, maybe try spanking. Blindfolds an an interesting change.

Role-play: many many options if you can manage not to feel too silly. There are so many possibilities: Pirate and captive, hired prostitute / gigolo, young forbidden lovers, Captured by amazons and forced to impregnate them, Insane doctor, An affair (wear a wig),

Sex games of various sorts: If she can fininsh him in less than 10 minutes (or whatever would be a good challenge), he must do somthing for her, otherwise she must do something for him. Or, reverse the genders.

Unusual locations, at home, or if you are feeling daring, in public.

Video yourselves (then be sure to destroy it, or somehow it will wind up on the web) - unless of course the idea of being watched turns you on.

Sex toys: so many to choose from. Just go to any of the online sellers like goodvibraitons and see what looks like fun.

There is a video series (Ok, this is probably ancient news) call the BETTER SEX series. The first volume is just the basics and you can forget it. The later ones talk about variations you can try and its not "gross" its done by sex therapists and the people who demo it are not porn stars but real people. We both got a lot of ideas from this and while some were too wild for us a lot of it is part of our regular rotation.

If you buy one vibe get a Hitachi Magic Wand... If you buy one dildo but a Rabbit (Silicone only)

There is a fun (inexpensive) toy that men can wear called a darting duck. She will like it more then you but....

There is one vibe we would both like but... Too expensive at this time. The WE vibe? Has anyone used one?

Well since I posted this blog, I ordered the sexerciseball and been doing roleplays around it eg my partner "breaks" into our bedroom and "forces" me to sit on the ball and bounce. The fact that there's a wireless remote so he can adjust the intensity of the vibrations and it makes me go wild because I'm not expecting it.

We've been incorporating so many new things with the use of the sexerciseball and it's just made our sex life better...I'm strongly encouraging to get this ball.

P.S. I got a pretty good leg workout at the same time too!

Whoops, I'm actually in my little sister's account. Sorry...It's actually smitty1976

LOL, I was going to Merge those posts but it's too funny...

Good for you..

Oopss...

CW

you should try some sex games, i'v been thinking about asking my bf for a while. Anyway, try typing into google or somthing similar "sexual desires" or "sex games for adults" and see what you get!

Oh and heres a descriction of a new technique u can try if u havn't already:
The woman lies on her shoulders with back up against a bed or couch sort of a head-stand, except on shoulders and legs folded toward her head. The man stands astride and inserts from a standing position.