That's what I'm asking.

I know for you women penis size is important, but what I wanna know is HOW important??

Recently my girlfriend left me for a man with a bigger penis, that's really ego-shattering to us men!

I wanted to know what women think of my size penis.

It's 6.5 inches in length. I guess that's pretty average, but I've been told by pletny women that it was big, maybe there just being nice though.

Help would be appreciated..

Oh and I have PICS if needed!

size doesn't matter as long as you are not holding a pencil (smile)............pictures are not neccessary but i can tell you as long as the person is in love with you or just really in to you and or what you are doing then i am sure it will be pleasurable. maybe your ex had a little freak in her and you just didn't know. anyway her lost!

i think it doesn't matter and i actually DONT like the big ones...its like mmm pain......

I've got a 6.5 incher - average.... Like you I've been told a few times that it's big, but that's probably just down to sheltered women and saying it to be nice.

Fact of the matter is, women are different sizes too, some women will cry with a 6 incher, others will be unsatisfied.

No guy wouldn't take an inch or two extra if it was offered, but there's really no point in thinking about it.

If you were under 6 then maybe it'd be okay to be a bit concerned, but suck it up average joe. And don't use porn to benchmark yourself, that's why they got the job.

Also, would women who based a relationship on two inches more of flesh worth giving a hoot about?

Size matters only the absense of quality sex and communication. Based on my own somewhat limited experience (had a lover with 10+) more well endowed men have to learn how to get their partner really aroused or they'll never get to have a woman more than once, if that. That may be where the idea that large is better comes from. If size seems to be a problem it may have more to do with her muscle tone. Get her a Kegelmaster and she'll start feeling a whole lot more!

It tough to know what is really average. I mean how do you measure? Trust men to measure themselves and not exaggerate? Do some sort of "study", but which men would decide to show up for the study to be measured? Besides - can you imagine applying for that grant - and then what - try telling your female grad students about their new job....

6.5 inches is somewhere in the normal range for humans. Probably above average, since most studies will overestimate sizes.

Any woman who makes a point of it probably has other issues. If she is just curious what it would be like with someone large, go buy a really huge sex toy for her to try.

Really, unless your penis is 3 inches when erect or 9 when it is flacid, size doesn't really matter to most women. And yes, we do talk about it, but not frequently as some guys assume. I may be a virgin, but a well-read one that listens to stories well, and as it goes, the bigger a guy is, the more likely he is to think he's "The Man" and does nothing to supliment his "trophy". And, the more likely he is to hurt a girl (or guy) during initial penetration.

Seriously, my man has an average-sized ding-dong, but everytime I see it I go nuts. Its not about size of the prize, its about the person wearing it. End of story.