My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile and we been having sex since relationship (3 months into it), but 95 percent of the time I feel no emotions. How would one fix this? I tried talking to him and I told him that sex is not that great with him when he shows no emotion, but it physically feels good. I want sex and think about sex, but can not get into it with him. We use to have phone sex also, but now I do not want to because I can not get turned on anymore by him on the phone. In the past relationship I had, I never had this problem (phone sex, and physical contact), but in the past I would only do other things beside sex.

There is something else going on here and you need to figure out what it is. My guess is that the two of your aren't very connected. Does your heart go pitter pat when you hear his voice or see him? How balanced is your relationship? Is one doing far more giving than the other? Why did you get together? Why are you still together? What is the glue in the relationship?