Thread: any good head tips?

The twisting motion with one hand is perfect, the timing makes it better. You twist as you go down 1 way then you twist the other coming up.

After getting good at it you can go as slow or fast as he would like

Great topic, I’ve had some experience in this area both personal and in a sex therapy group. The first and for most important aspect to remember is attitude. No that any positive or negative stigma you put out there when talking or in reacting to your lover will not be forgotten. It’s important your man knows that he turns you on and you desire him as much as he does you. For example never say things like yuck, icky, that’s not normal and don’t be awkwardly confrontational about sexual like and dislikes. Because studies say there is no actual definition of normal sexuality.
Yes, head is very important to men because men worry about how much there lady wants them. Swallowing is important as well but more important is finishing what you start. If you don’t and you stop right before he cum’s he may feel rejected amongst other things. And that feeling can make a man loose his erection. Not to mention when you reject the needs of your lover in the act of making love. You are holding back the true potential of you and your lover’s relationship. You should always want to have a fun and healthy sexual relationship. Remember sex is only taboo or gross when you think about how your parents did it. But, you’re all grown up and it’s a wonderful thing as long as you are willing to give as well as receive. You will find that by giving you man head for no reason or pulling over in your car at the spur of the moment to please your man will have a big pay off for you. Every man loves to be taken by his women! He will have that sexy image of you burned in his thoughts. Because you can guaranty your man is probably thinking about you giving him head right now. The catch is will he have to go hide and masturbate (even worse find someone else to do it) In order for him to satisfy he’s fantasy. Or will he go home and get it from you resulting in him doing little things for you in general that he never did before. And will make his performance 100% better in the bedroom. You can even use it as a bargaining chip for what you want in or out of the bedroom.
How to do it? For starters never and I mean NEVER stroke the penis dry or even partially dry. That doesn’t feel good and makes it seem that you don’t really care or aren’t paying attention. Example; how would you like it if he jammed his finger or penis in you and you were dry or even partly dry!) And never use your teeth. Suck it like you love it and can’t get enough. You can pretend to accidentally go down to far and kind of gag once or twice and keep going. That makes him think you really like his penis. Some men like it when you play with there butt with your finger or lick it a little and then back to the penis. Let him be on top just be clear that if he pushes down to far and chokes you that you wont do it anymore! Balls aren’t real important to mess with. There are a lot of little things before and after you can do too. Try whispering something dirty in his ear that leads up to you giving him head. Or after he cum’s stay close to him and let him know you enjoyed it too. If your still not sure if you’re doing it right. You can always ask him at night when the lights are out and you can’t see if it’s embarrassing for you.
Just for the record there are studies that say swallowing is good for you in many ways. Look it up and you’ll see for your self. And if you’re worried about taste there are a lot of good flavored lubrication's on the market that can be fun for both of you.

As an average man, I would say that there is no way that you could not do a
great job as long as you keep your teeth away.Yeah I think a online video might help but I think you ought to know what to do just by instinct.

Originally Posted by funtoread

Great topic, I’ve had some experience in this area both personal and in a sex therapy group. The first and for most important aspect to remember is attitude. No that any positive or negative stigma you put out there when talking or in reacting to your lover will not be forgotten. It’s important your man knows that he turns you on and you desire him as much as he does you. For example never say things like yuck, icky, that’s not normal and don’t be awkwardly confrontational about sexual like and dislikes. Because studies say there is no actual definition of normal sexuality.
Yes, head is very important to men because men worry about how much there lady wants them. Swallowing is important as well but more important is finishing what you start. If you don’t and you stop right before he cum’s he may feel rejected amongst other things. And that feeling can make a man loose his erection. Not to mention when you reject the needs of your lover in the act of making love. You are holding back the true potential of you and your lover’s relationship. You should always want to have a fun and healthy sexual relationship. Remember sex is only taboo or gross when you think about how your parents did it. But, you’re all grown up and it’s a wonderful thing as long as you are willing to give as well as receive. You will find that by giving you man head for no reason or pulling over in your car at the spur of the moment to please your man will have a big pay off for you. Every man loves to be taken by his women! He will have that sexy image of you burned in his thoughts. Because you can guaranty your man is probably thinking about you giving him head right now. The catch is will he have to go hide and masturbate (even worse find someone else to do it) In order for him to satisfy he’s fantasy. Or will he go home and get it from you resulting in him doing little things for you in general that he never did before. And will make his performance 100% better in the bedroom. You can even use it as a bargaining chip for what you want in or out of the bedroom.
How to do it? For starters never and I mean NEVER stroke the penis dry or even partially dry. That doesn’t feel good and makes it seem that you don’t really care or aren’t paying attention. Example; how would you like it if he jammed his finger or penis in you and you were dry or even partly dry!) And never use your teeth. Suck it like you love it and can’t get enough. You can pretend to accidentally go down to far and kind of gag once or twice and keep going. That makes him think you really like his penis. Some men like it when you play with there butt with your finger or lick it a little and then back to the penis. Let him be on top just be clear that if he pushes down to far and chokes you that you wont do it anymore! Balls aren’t real important to mess with. There are a lot of little things before and after you can do too. Try whispering something dirty in his ear that leads up to you giving him head. Or after he cum’s stay close to him and let him know you enjoyed it too. If your still not sure if you’re doing it right. You can always ask him at night when the lights are out and you can’t see if it’s embarrassing for you.
Just for the record there are studies that say swallowing is good for you in many ways. Look it up and you’ll see for your self. And if you’re worried about taste there are a lot of good flavored lubrication's on the market that can be fun for both of you.

As an average man, I think this stuff can get real complicated when its not.
A guy seeks to please himself really...rubbing his penis in your vagina...ect..
He is the one that is wanting to get off. I think his attitude would be"some girl has her mouth on me" and he ought to get super excited just realizing that much.With a little bit of in and out motions and maybe a little tongue here or
there, he ought to be very happy, orgasm or not. I'm getting excited just thinking and writing about it let alone it being done on me. Try to keep this things simple. I suppose this topic can use some discussion. I will say one thing. Like men tend to do, if something doesn't' happen right, they immediately blame themselves. If your man is not reacting like he should be then I can tell you that the problem has much much more of a chance of it being him...probably psychological like nervousness or something.