any good head tips?
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a few months. we fool around quite often, usually consisting of hand jobs and fingering. however, i feel i am ready to move to the next step and give him head. i have done this to other guys before and no one every complained, but before i give my bf head for the first time i just wanted to know if any of you out there had any good tips that will make him go crazy over it!
thanks!
Just relax and don't be afraid of it. Maybe get a book or video for ideas.
"Do What You Can, With What You Have, Where You Are"
go down below his balls and lick his tant
Find out how he likes it. Have fun with it start building up the excitment now ask him how much pressure he likes. Some guys love lots of pressure the rougher the better. Other guys well they like it soft and light.
Or have fun watching body react to your touch just make sure to have fun with it.
It's different for each guy. Some like it if you put on a show, that is, wear the sexy lingerie and all that, like you're playing at being a hooker. Others like risky behavior, doing it in public places, etc. Others like the advanced techniques, women who are into deep throat, or tying him up on the bed and taking a long time to bring him to orgasm.
For other guys it's quantity, that you love doing it so much you can't get enough. Some women genuinely enjoy swallowing semen, and will do it just because it suits their own lustful desires, and the guy just goes along for the ride. If you can find that place within yourself, any guy you are with will be counting his blessings and thanking his lucky stars.
But the thing guys like most is how a woman shows her unique personality in those intimate moments. It's that secret side of yourself that you only share with him. The kind of thing that you can't really talk about in a public forum because it's just too personal.
One more point, the male reproductive system is nothing but a machine to make semen and deliver it to the female. If you get him used to you relieving him on a regular basis (like once a day, or maybe even more), he will become addicted to that, and start to feel like he can't live without it. Then you will have major power over him. I think that's the kind of info you were looking for. Good luck.
Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 10-21-2008 at 05:00 AM. Reason: Merge posts
Nice theory Richard, until they decide that they can "handle" it all themselves. I'd happily blow my man daily and he does taste yummy, but I dont' get any. I'm in a pi**y mood today, I'll get over it - being horny does it.
Balance dear Bea, keep balance. He gets head, he should get you off at least half the time.
turn on some good music and deep throat or not hum with it.......... that always lightens things up a bit lol.
Well, my boyfriend really likes it when I give him head after sexual intercourse. :]
Oh! And try giving him head when he's standing up. It's easier on you, and my bf says that it's a different feeling than when he's lying down.
Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 10-21-2008 at 05:01 AM. Reason: merge posts
"Courage is not the absence of fear, rather, it is the judgment that something is more important than fear itself."
what he likes
I can tell you a few things that seem to work with all guys.
Look up at his face while you're doing it.
If he's too big to fit all of him into your mouth, just wrap a hand around the base.
Use a lot of spit and drool.
Cup his balls in your other hand and just lift them up a little.
Treat it like a popsicle, you can't miss.
haha love this... All very true.Originally Posted by Tabatha S.
In my experience MANY women dont know what to do other then what they seen in porn or there Girlfriends have told them.
A few things to had from a mans point of view That i wish alot of women knew more about. The head of the penis is the only sensitive part in a penis. Liking the base really doesn't do much until you return back to the head.
Pertaining to you. Make sure that you have some sort of code to go by. So if he does cum then he can give you some sort of courtesy tap to let you know. Most men just come out and say it.
- Lick around the head
- NO TEETH PLEASE... If so make it gentle
- Blatantly spitting is not too sexy but its accepted
- We understand that it is tiring and you may get lock jaw. BUT If you make it seem like a job we will get turned off easy. We can tell!!!
- Teasing is always great idea
- Playing with his balls will definitely turn him on more! GENTLE squeezing is awesome but be carefully not to hurt him...
- Tip for you is gently raise the pressure until you feel him jump/cringe. Stay within that limit
- Pressure May be one of the most important things a girl can do to give a great BJ. Just sucking doesn't do much, other then us men find it extremely sexy. Apply pressure with your tongue.
- If you Gag then dont be alarmed, we also find it as a turn on
- Take control!! Also very important.
- Depending on the female, swallowing is the greatest turn on but we understand that alot of women dont like it.
If you follow these tips then trust me HE WILL DEFIANTLY PUT IN 10x THE EFFORT WHEN ITS HIS TURN TO GIVE ORAL.
Hope this helps
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