Talking Dirty,

**sTyLeRock** · 10-02-2008 05:35 PM

Hey all

Okay so i been reading up on talking dirty, because i'm normally quite in the bedroom but i would like to talk a little dirty, my girl does it to me and i love it, i wanna do it back.

But i just DONT KNOW what to say, i been reading up online and it all sez about how to say it, when to say it, what not to say, but nothing that really tells me WHAT to say.

Anyone maybe have a link to a webpage list of quotes or any general ideas or anything ha ha.

Thanks
-Daniel

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-02-2008 05:44 PM

NO LINKS haha... (not allowed)....

CW

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-02-2008 05:47 PM

On another note.

I have always liked: "Your a sexy (b i t c h ) aren't you"... the word ( b i t c h ) combined kind of does it for me.

There's one for you.

CW

**romantichopeful** · 10-05-2008 05:12 PM

I really think that it depends on your girlfriend. I think you should base it off of what she says to you. If she talks rather dirty then try what Chandlers Wish suggested. I tend to like sweeter things. Come here sexy is always nice, but I like to hear that he loves making love to me (and various other versions of that one). That he loves my body, the way it feels, etc. My favorite is probably when he said he wanted to be inside me. But like I said, base it off of her. Go as far as she does.

**WildChild** · 10-05-2008 09:41 PM

Some of us asked for help on this a while back. Seems to be an individual thing. I listen what my sweet says, it does get me off. I'm not quiet in bed but not into narrating it, he asks me questions. He wants feedback and commentary. Something like, " how does my hard c*ck feel inside you?" Then I can reply to that, "Your c*ck is so hard, it feels so good" That seems to work. Maybe she can guide you into by asking questions?

**mburen0001** · 10-05-2008 11:33 PM

I love it when my man talks dirty to me in bed. I like role playing like being his naughty little school girl and him being my teacher who needs to teach me a lesson, or you can just say what you want her to do to you in detail and tell her what you want to do to her.

**h2os** · 10-06-2008 12:39 AM

Ah yes, this is very difficult to start doing - and very difficult to keep it up! I absolutely LOVE it when my beau says "good girl" though he doesnt say it as often as i'd like... hm.

and for some reason the tone/fluctuations of the voice when they say "i'm going to come" is really hot too.

**sTyLeRock** · 10-08-2008 06:24 PM

but what to say?

like i just go blank and tounge tied ha ha

**JWB_pof** · 10-09-2008 11:07 PM

You have to feel each person out.
some like very dirty talk, some like sweet talk, some like a mix and so on.
i have been with some who nibble, bite and smack, not spank, and even gotten my back ripped up like a mountain lion attacked me. the first time that happened i was like, WHAT THE FU#% B!tch!!!!!!!! it hurt but felt good and then things got even wilder afterwards and the next time.
i remember the first time i was spoken dirty to in bed i thought funny things, but look at it this way, this is a time i can call her a b1tch without getting in trouble........ wah

!!!
but seriously, next time you are together and doing the bedroom thing, try it little at a time. don't call her names to call her them, mix some good with the bad, like chandler & wild said.
i will be polite and stop here ................... good luck & have fun

**Livelaughlove** · 10-10-2008 07:01 AM

In the bedroom I live by one rule

"THERE ARE NO RULES"

If your a beginner simple psychology will work for you.

Give her a compliment and then introduce your statement of intent. With her short ego boost she will be much more excepting to your naughty words.

With a little more experience and calibration you will realize that you can pretty much say anything in the heat of passion and it is accepted.

Good luck,

Live laugh and love