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Think of it this way, when you watch a movie you suspend disbelief and get into the story. He knows that is isn't 'real' but you are. Watching those women on the screen is fantasy, titilation, you are warm and real. Watching some other guy getting a blow job and imagining himself getting one doesn't compare to your tongue and lips going to work. No contest. It's much more a guy thing, if you had any idea what really goes on in their heads, you might be shocked. I've spent quite a bit of time working and studying in the 'male' world, where they gotten comforatble enough to be fairly honest (I do keep definite limits). You've seen When Harry Met Sally? He tells her how guys want to 'do' pretty much every woman they see? She asked about the unattractive ones and he says, you pretty much want to do them too? Within a certain age group, that probably sums it up. Doesn't mean most really would though, just the instinct to spread their DNA is pretty strong stuff. Wanting you to watch with him is an act of trust, may be one of hope that you'll get some ideas and I'll bet he won't mind a bit if the two of you get otherwise occupied and end up not watching the whole thing!
But get over the idea that he is comparing you. Take it as a learning experience, what does he get into, what images really get him going? What could you add to your love making that just might take it over the top? You don't actually have to do it all, just talking about it may add the extra edge. Just knowing you are open to possiblities makes you a woman in a million for him, an awful lot of women aren't.
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Originally Posted by Tabatha S.
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