Thread: he doesn't make me have an orgasm no matter what???

I think tht you already know the answer. Ask yourself this question... Is this the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life? Or do you think that there is someone better out there? You deserve someone that truly loves, respects, and, frankly, wants you in that way. I knwo what you are feeling. When your partner doesn't respond to the sexy lingerie and when he does, does not strive to please you... that is such an awful feeling. Like you're not good enough. But that is the selfish person that he is... not tinking about how this affecting YOU mentally or emotionally....
To be honest if you don't consider getting out now, you could end up like me.... accepting that your man doesn't treat you like the knockout hottie that you are! Worthy of an earth-shattering orgasm now and then! Trust me....... it only gets harder with time!

[MY Quote : Emy, I'm probably a little older than some of the other men that come here, and I can tell you, No nor-mal person would not want]

Hey guys I wanted to clarify I didn't mean anything by that statement (being a little older) doesn't make me smarter, altho I know it looks that way.

Some of y'alls' comments on here really impress me by far!

I must say that love is free. There are people with the mindset that it comes with a price. If you do this for me then i will give you a lil of this or a lil of that. You didn't do this for me so i won't do that for you. I think this leveraging systme people get into with there heart is a shame. Really these people are holding themselves back from experienceing wonderful things.

Making love to your partner whether its deep n passionate, fast n hard, or quick n easy should be done with your full attention. Its your sexual expression and there is no need to hold back.

Is he on any anti depressants? I know some ppl really need them but i find that if they get on the wrong one or too much it just flat lines their emotions. It makes them careless if they have sex and since that part of their brain isn't active they don't even notice that you aren't happy with the sex you are getting.

Remember to love yourself everyday that your value comes from within. His lack of enthusiaism for you is not reflection of you but a refection of himself.

I agree with some of the other posters - you don't need a guy like that! A good lover is concerned with pleasuring their partner and he doesn't seem interested. That's not fair to you at all, and if you think you're feeling left out now, imagine how you're going to feel 10 years down the road if nothing changes. You may end up marrying him and then having an affair because he just doesn't satisfy you. It's not worth it! Let him know that things need to change, or you're outta here! If he lets you go without even trying, then obviously he's not the one. Good luck!