my bf cant seem to stick his penis all the way in my vagina because im to tight?

vetaxskankface · 10-14-2008, 07:19 PM

we tried multiple times.
over and over and over again.
in the shower, different positions.
every time he tries to inserts into my vagina it hurts so bad that i plead for him to stop.
He cant even stick the whole head of his penis in without it hurting so bad.
He told me i was just to tight. He can finger me fine with one finger.
i told him we need to try to add lubrication but he siad im already always wet.

this makes me feel so bad. it lowers my self esteem because i cant have a physical relationship with my boyfriend.

what should i do? i feel like this is going to happen for the rest of my life.
please dont say go to a gyno because i cant bring that out to my mom, she'll flip.

**crzyredhead21** · 10-14-2008, 08:04 PM

Well first of all I would have to say that you definatley need him to pleasure you more. If you are not hot and begging for it by the time he starts in on you than you may experience a bit of pain. There are a number of techniques he can do to make you wetter than you have ever been in your life! Check out the other threads around here... chances are you will find one that helps! ( You guys knwo which I'm talking about! ) LOL!! JWB you rock!

**WildChild** · 10-15-2008, 09:28 AM

Being wet and being W E T are two different things. One finger isn't getting there, you aren't aroused enough, especially for a newbie. You also are probably not relaxed enough. Can he bring you to orgasm manually? Do that first and then you'll relax, be nice and wet and then intercourse should be a breeze.

**shweedart** · 10-15-2008, 11:46 AM

try more than one finger too

**Hystorm** · 10-15-2008, 11:53 AM

Don't let him make all the decisions, just get some lube and slather it on him before he tries again. I don't know why people make such a big deal about going O' natural! It rarely works well!

**Tabatha S.** · 10-15-2008, 12:11 PM

The way I see it you have a couple possible problems....
1. You need to relax more, don't feel like you're doing something wrong.
2. Your bf's penis is very thick, and you're having trouble adjusting
3. Use some lube... make sure it's not petroleum based.
4. Have him give you oral for a while... (more than 10 minutes).

Let me know if any of this helps!

10-14-2008, 07:19 PM	#1
vetaxskankface Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 1	my bf cant seem to stick his penis all the way in my vagina because im to tight? we tried multiple times. over and over and over again. in the shower, different positions. every time he tries to inserts into my vagina it hurts so bad that i plead for him to stop. He cant even stick the whole head of his penis in without it hurting so bad. He told me i was just to tight. He can finger me fine with one finger. i told him we need to try to add lubrication but he siad im already always wet. this makes me feel so bad. it lowers my self esteem because i cant have a physical relationship with my boyfriend. what should i do? i feel like this is going to happen for the rest of my life. please dont say go to a gyno because i cant bring that out to my mom, she'll flip.

10-15-2008, 11:46 AM	#4
shweedart Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Essex in England, near London Posts: 580	try more than one finger too __________________ You know the way a poem sometimes makes an absurd connection That's him Lyrically professing his affection...

10-15-2008, 12:11 PM	#6
Tabatha S. VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 30	loosen up! The way I see it you have a couple possible problems.... 1. You need to relax more, don't feel like you're doing something wrong. 2. Your bf's penis is very thick, and you're having trouble adjusting 3. Use some lube... make sure it's not petroleum based. 4. Have him give you oral for a while... (more than 10 minutes). Let me know if any of this helps!

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10-14-2008, 08:04 PM	#2
crzyredhead21 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: California Baby! :) Posts: 182 Blog Entries: 1	Well first of all I would have to say that you definatley need him to pleasure you more. If you are not hot and begging for it by the time he starts in on you than you may experience a bit of pain. There are a number of techniques he can do to make you wetter than you have ever been in your life! Check out the other threads around here... chances are you will find one that helps! ( You guys knwo which I'm talking about! ) LOL!! JWB you rock!

10-15-2008, 09:28 AM	#3
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,230 Blog Entries: 5	Being wet and being W E T are two different things. One finger isn't getting there, you aren't aroused enough, especially for a newbie. You also are probably not relaxed enough. Can he bring you to orgasm manually? Do that first and then you'll relax, be nice and wet and then intercourse should be a breeze.

10-15-2008, 11:53 AM	#5
Hystorm Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 198	Don't let him make all the decisions, just get some lube and slather it on him before he tries again. I don't know why people make such a big deal about going O' natural! It rarely works well!