Hi all!
I'm curious what everyone's opinions on booty calls are? Like... do you have any "rules", do you prefer your place or theirs? Do you just show up (or have them show up) or do you meet for a drink first?
I have no experience with this because the only similar situation I was in was actually a "friends with benefits" thing, where we just hung out normally and occasionally slept together!
Plus, what do you do if they/you start to get attached? Just end it?
My friend (female) said you should mix up who's place it's at and how often it happens, only have sleep overs occasionally (she actually has a ratio of 3-1... 3 times leaving to 1 time staying!) so no one starts to get attached, any other ideas?
Share your stories and tips please!

People will get attached with or without sex. If you find yourself becoming attached, or the other person 'too clingy' , thats a good indication to either nip the the relationship in the bud, or re-establish the relationship as conventional lovers.

ah the booty call thread.
this is a thread that can be tossed in all directions.
so in short:
first i think that "booty-call" is just what it says. your called for a specific reason.
most of the time the reason is going to say they do not have anyone at the time, so you will do.
there is no rule to the booty-call game. it doesnt matter who goes to whos house, or who calls. so you not to think of that. from what i gather you are saying its more "friends with bennys" if you are thinking of that to much.
most booty-calls are usually when someone was out with their friends and they gotten a little drunk and horney. or hanging with friends in general and when they all go to leave, they get horny. and who do they call, someone they know they can score with relatively easy. how true that is is to be your own expierence, but this is what i find to be the case more so than anything else.
now if one starts getting attached, you need to talk things over and take it from there. if you both start a relationship than great. if you both agree to leave things the way they are, again great, but if one wants more and doesnt communicate or get what they wanted, someone is going to get hurt. so be careful with booty-calls.

Well ironic that this thread comes about now because I have just ended my 10 month "friend with benifit" situation. I was once a big fan of the booty call, for about 5 months I was loving not having to deal with having a boyfriend that cares if you flirt with other guys or if you happen to slip and make out with one when you've had a bit to much to drink. Prior to my friend with benny situation I had always had long term boyfriends, and occasional one night stands, never continueous booty calls with the same person. In our situation we would never meet for drinks prior because we are both not 21 yet but often times wed end up "hanging out" because one of us or both of us had been drinking a great deal that night. We for the most part would hook up at my house, but on occasion would go to his....and I became attached. And I owe that to the fact that we were friends prior to having sex. So my feelings got confused because I cared about him as a friend and a person, and he was also giving me the things that a boyfriend would give me s/a pleasure. It takes a certain kind of person to be able to carry on with a successful friends with benifit situation for a long period of time, and I proved to be able to handle it at first, but then found that I could not. I think my biggest mistake in the whole thing was when I got attached I didn't end it. Instead I overlooked the fact that he was treating me bad because the other things s/a his ability to be an amazing lover in bed were so good. Anyway I definatly learned that I need something more substacial in someone I am having sex with, and I need someone who will commit. So this is why I think that booty calls never really work in your favor in the long run. Especially when you wind up pregnant and having to deal with serious issues with someone who was never serious enough with you to ever take you on a date. Just my take on it.