hey everyone!
wow this forum is great...so much advice!
here's my question. i have never had a "clit-o" from actual intercourse : (
what i experience with my man is vaginal contractions during sex-which feel amazing. the kind that i get when i have an orgasm for say when my clit is stimulated, but i don't get that heightened sensation right before the contractions during actual intercourse...any thoughts?

If you take a look at the construction of your body, the nerves of both the penis and the clit extend well past their area of concentration. In tantra they are the "hidden" portion and in women are responsible for the vaginal orgasm. Kind of like you are getting the underside of the clit, however it works, all that matters is - it works!

Position is the key, if the clit isn't being stimulated, nothing's going on there. Experiement, you know practice makes perfect.

Heh, speaking of positions for clit stimulation, last night the little wife and I started in her favorite position, her on top. She usually likes to lay flat on top holding her-self up with her hands so all her weight is on her clitoris when we are fully engaged. When I could tell she was close to her time, I did something we have never done; I brought her down to me and had her laying on me flat, with her head turned to the side. I then placed both hands on her shoulders and began to hold her even tighter against me, meaning, pushing her down so as I engaged her fully, my pubic bone rubbed fully and completely against her clit.


She came like she has not in years!!


Usually, she hates it when I constrict her in any way, like described above.
This time, she loved it!!

You may want to give it a whirl.

I have to agree with Hystorm, that truly is the best way or at least 1 of the best ways for stimulation.

I have also found out the with the man behind the woman and both on your side, could be either or. The man raising her outside leg up and the male going in underneath that leg. Excuse me that position is kind of hard to describe, but it should put more pressure on the clit.

Hystorm, I have a question, what made you do something a little different this time, that was interesting to me. Was it spontaneous? or......