this is kind of a hard question just because every woman is soooo different. I was wondering: I have no problem reaching climax during vaginal intercourse. I mean i can get off up to three times during sex. But I have never orgasmed clitorally. I just can't seem to do it. My boyfriend will be doing his thing down there (i dont want to get too graphic) and it turns me on, and i really like it, but i cant get off. and sometimes when I'm alone and i try to get myself off, I just can't do it, even if I'm working my g spot. I just dont know what im doing i guess. help!!!

If you can orgasm through vaginal intercourse and cant clitorially, id guess that your technique isnt quite right.

Invest in a vibrator designed specifically for clitoral stimulation...youre pretty much there if its feeling good, just possibly putting too much pressure on yourself to get to that final stage... it is no doubt frustrating.

I'd suggest asking your boyfriend to use the vibrator on you, just to heighten things that extra level.

Have fun!

Masturbation is more than a physical thing. While you're masturbating dirty talk to yourself. It's odd at first, but it helps. Try switching positions as well- on your side, your tummy, in the shower (be creative). Also feel free to fantasize while you mast.- women are sexual beings. It isn't wierd, wrong or scandolous, only natural!

There are some good books on the subject of self pleasure. You might want to order a couple. Sometimes I think life would be easier if we came with instruction manuals - but then who reads instructions?