Hey all,

Just got a couple Q's for the ladies here,

When i am giving my girl oral pleasure, after she has an orgasm she goes SUPER sensitive on her slit, if i even touch it she just about jumps up out of the bed, This Normal?

Also about after 5-6 Vaginal Orgasms just about her whole body will go sensitive, now this is when i can choose to end it or be very Mean and keep going with her squerming but also enjoying it,

After about 8-9 Orgasms she tells me that the orgasms get painfully good, and that it feels Soo good she has to stop, she can't really explain it to me but maybe other women here who are multi orgasmic can?

-Daniel

My wife has code words for when that happens...she simply wispers: "its too strong!"
Not my loving action mind you, but her 'about to explode' Orgasm.
She got them alot when we were first married. In fact the first time (and so far, last?!) we did 69, I was letting her wail away at me while I explored her fun n soft places.
I did not hear much from her so I figured I did not know what I was doing and half turned my attention to myself. When I began down the lovely road of Orgasm, I began to let her know I was getting closer and closer via my moans and grunts. All the while making sure I dont flake off on keeping her close as well ( I was hoping anyway).
The closer I got to peaking and the noisier I got, it appeared..so did she!
As I began to blast off, I quickly pulled her down to me and went strait for the tounge twister. She began to squeel something fearce. I just thought she was getting too over whealmed and began saying between breaths: Its too strong, its too strong.
At the time, I thought my ejaculation was what she was talking about, shooting to hard, taking out an eye or something but she was speaking of her. Turns out she was barely hanging on the whole time I was back there and came twice...little ones, but then the granddady of all Os kicked in or tried and it freaked her out! She saw it as loosing too much control, or not feeling in countrol enough. It was a very strange experiance with her. SHe was glowing like I later saw her on our wedding day.
Since then, It has happened a few times, when she is building and building and then wispers: if I dont go soon, its going to be too powerfull an orgasm!
Usually, I will do whaterver I am currently do, harder and faster just to force her over the edge! This way, we have achieved the secret of a womans squitring orgasm.
With us, it was more like a gush. Was soooo erotic I popped a woody again and we started all over again. Ah yes, the good ole days.

because its so sensitive anyway direct pressure on the clit' can be painful, especially after you've just had an orgasm it becomes uncomfortable if you keep going without a break.

If you make her come that much then chances are she might feel close to fainting or has a headache

It the spiral of arousal, it's builds on itself. In a way it's like there is a barrier or series of barriers and as you cross each one the level of responsiveness and intensity builds. When it gets to be too much, just back off a bit if even for just a minute or two. Get away from her clit and tease her nipples, lick and stroke her thighs, keep the arousal levels up but decrease the stimuation for a little while. Just like men get super sensitive after they come, so do some women. The concept of Extended Massive Orgasm can help this because it teaches women to relax into orgasm rather than getting there through tension.

At this level of arousal I think some it is from losing focus and she can be brought back doing things that might not be welcome at lower levels of arousal. A smack on the rear, using the your palm flat to tap or gently 'spank' her volva and clit a few times, breifly 'pinching' a good handful of flesh. It works for me when we are actually having intercouse, during oral just backing off the clit for a few moments, lets a woman catch her breath so to speak.

When I was younger I often experienced the problem of it being just too much, as I've matured I just learned to make a slight shift in position or even breathing to keep it where I need it. Some of it may be, as alluded to in some other posts, a sense that the orgasm could be too intense, that may be a reluctance we have to completely let go. I don't know if that's social conditioning or a natural physical thing. In the book Water For Chocolate, at the end the lovers finally unite in total surrender to their passion and their orgasm is so intense and complete that they are consumed in fire. Could we harbor a fear of such passion?

I just had to register to say this... it isn't just females so I don't know why so many males are so clueless on this issue. After I orgasm my glans is extremely sensitive, painfully good. Like you want it but you just can't bear the extreme sensation any longer.