bleeding during/after masterbation

tinker_bell88 · 10-30-2008, 10:40 PM

I've been with my bf for about a month now and though we have not had sex, we have done other things. He fingers me and sometimes we'll get kind of enthusiastic and his fingering can get a little rough (and I'm not saying I don't like it cause I do). But when we're done I'll bleeding like a period, not as heavy and it usually only lasts a couple minutes.
But, this has happened more then once, maybe like a handful of times.

I don't understand WHY I keep bleeding?? I've had had sex with another guy, it was only once and I did bleed than too. I'm wondering if maybe my hyman didn't break all the way? I've heard that if it doesn't break all the way the first time it breaks bit by bit each time your penetrated.

ANY HELP IS APPRECIATED!!!

**shweedart** · 10-31-2008, 05:45 AM

when you had sex that was probably your hymen. But now, when your boyfriend fingers you, it could be that his nails are too long? Like it or not, he could be doing it TOO rough

AlwaysLearning · 11-03-2008, 10:04 PM

I think you should check his hands. Depending on what he does for a living he may have really rough hands and jagged nails. If he does, give him a hand massage and trim his nails rub them with lotion etc. He'll show his appreciation. Also, just for your Vagina's health, make sure his fingernails are clean. If he is making little cuts in your vagina and there is dirt under his nails, you need to make sure it doesn't get transmitted to your vagina in those cuts. Yeast infections are not fun and neither is vaginitis.

10-30-2008, 10:40 PM	#1
tinker_bell88 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 1	bleeding during/after masterbation I've been with my bf for about a month now and though we have not had sex, we have done other things. He fingers me and sometimes we'll get kind of enthusiastic and his fingering can get a little rough (and I'm not saying I don't like it cause I do). But when we're done I'll bleeding like a period, not as heavy and it usually only lasts a couple minutes. But, this has happened more then once, maybe like a handful of times. I don't understand WHY I keep bleeding?? I've had had sex with another guy, it was only once and I did bleed than too. I'm wondering if maybe my hyman didn't break all the way? I've heard that if it doesn't break all the way the first time it breaks bit by bit each time your penetrated. ANY HELP IS APPRECIATED!!!

10-31-2008, 05:45 AM	#2
shweedart Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Essex in England, near London Posts: 577	when you had sex that was probably your hymen. But now, when your boyfriend fingers you, it could be that his nails are too long? Like it or not, he could be doing it TOO rough __________________ You know the way a poem sometimes makes an absurd connection That's him Lyrically professing his affection...

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11-03-2008, 10:04 PM	#3
AlwaysLearning Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 6	I think you should check his hands. Depending on what he does for a living he may have really rough hands and jagged nails. If he does, give him a hand massage and trim his nails rub them with lotion etc. He'll show his appreciation. Also, just for your Vagina's health, make sure his fingernails are clean. If he is making little cuts in your vagina and there is dirt under his nails, you need to make sure it doesn't get transmitted to your vagina in those cuts. Yeast infections are not fun and neither is vaginitis.