Thread: Is this right?

Kellie, I'm feeling less flipant today so I'll give you some more serious and hopefully useful input.

Sexual pleasure is an amazing gift. Regardless of your belief system, consider that your clitorous has 8000 nerve endings and its' only purpose is pleasure! It doesn't do anything else. It also doesn't get sick, have cancers or get infections, what other body part can you say that about? So why would your body, whether you believe it was created by God(dess) or evolution or space aliens, have this nerve packed clit soley for your pleasure, if you weren't supposed to enjoy it and use it? The head of a man's penis is his most sensitive area and it only has 4000 nerve endings. SO who should enjoy it more?

I gave this advice to another young woman recently and will essentially repeat it here. You need to make your your friend, get to know and love it. You can't get pleasure (unless you are a little warped) from something you think is gross, ugly, dirty or icky. For generations we have been fed this nonsense by people who want to induce guilt and control people. Take a stand, don't buy it!

Your body is a wonderful thing and no two are exactly alike. Learn to love it, get naked in front of the mirror and spend time getting to know your bod. Touch it, tell it how much you like each part, pet it, carress it, find out what feels good, where the sensitive spots are. Do this several times a week until you are starting to really like what you see and feel!

Now it's time to get in touch with your , this lovely pet can be your best freind if you let it! Get yourself a mirror and a map (you can download one) and learn all the parts, all the names. Can you find your vulva, labia (major and minor), vagina, clit, pernium, anus, and everything else? Get to know them all. Use some lube (that could be saliva) and play with your clit, see what happens to the entire as you get aroused. Men get erections as the blood flows into their penis but we get increased blood flow and engorgement too. See how the color changes? IT's amazing, what your body does to move toward pleasure.

Learn to self pleasure, don't think of it as masterbation - we have so many neg association with that word in our society. It's self pleasure, just like slowly and sensuously enjoying a dish of cold, creamy ice cream, feel every sensation. Find out what feels good, how you like to be touched. There is a ton of info on the net and a lot of books on this subject.

Getting know a penis can be a blast. They are so cool. I mean think about it. It can go from this little thing nestled in between two hanging sacs to the proud symbol of manhood in a minute! And you can get it to respond by doing some of the most inoccuous things! Play with it, touch it, taste it, your tongue is a wonderful way to explore it because it (your tongue) is so sensitve and can feel every tiny change in texture and shape. It may twitch and jump and when super aroused - just before he cums - will get even harder and larger! It's great, cuz when it's inside you, that just gets you cumming right along with him.

As for the mess, you have to rethink this. I love standing up and having the mixture of his cum and mine running down the insides of my legs. You have to Love it! Feel how slippery it is and sexy, if you want then hop into the shower. You should clean up after anyway, hygiene is always important. Then you are fresh if you want to have another go round - you're young so that a good possiblity, as you get older it won't happen (you'll be up to it but he won't), so enjoy those repeats while you can!

Take your time, self talk yourself on this, how sexy it is, now amazing. You can prepare yourself for a life of pleasure and enjoyment! Just think! It's free, done safely it will improve your health and make you glow! What else can give you some much return for the investment of some time to learn to love your body?