So i kind of think Sex Is Dirrty.
Is it wrong to think that. When ever i want to have sex, i can't because i get turned off by thinking about the gross things.

What gross things :S

Good question Shweedart. Racked my brains, can't think of anything gross about it. Well, unless you're into water sports or scat. But then to each their own. Somehow I don't think that's what the poster was talking about.

Kellie, what do you think is gross about it? It is a natural and wonderful thing!

How old are you? What sex are you?

Usually if a person thinks of it as dirty, it's because of sexual abuse or someone or some religions have been telling them it's dirty.

Something must have happend in your past to make you feel this way.
Human nature is to want to touch/love and be loved. Having a dirty feeling about sex is a state of mind. You will have to get your mind changed in order for your body to follow. You may need therapy to get intouch with why you feel this way so that you can get past it. Otherwise, it will destroy any type of relationship you may try to start.

i'm female, 17 and i'm in a relationship.

i've never been sexualy abused. But i guess from some of the things people were telling me it creeps me out. just the thought of someon else's fluids in my body. i donno.

i've had sex before, and we don't use condoms because i'm on birth control. But, i don't know. i just think its dirty and messy

Have you discussed this issue with your boyfriend?

It seems to me it is the sperm that you are horrified over, the thought of him ejaculating inside of you and the "messy" sides in your minds eye.

Perhaps he could use a Condom initially as you ease yourself into understanding that it's not messy persay and / or a towel nearby so you feel okay about it after.

It certainly isn't "dirty" it's nature.. I am sure you don't find other "natural things dirty"...

It's just a mind set that you are not used to.

CW

If you don't want someone else's fluids inside you then...use a condom? It's not rocket science

It's not gross, learn to crave it!