swanvalleybabe

I'm sixteen, my boyfriend just turned nineteen and we have had sex 3 times. And we have been dating since I was 14, just turning 15.
We started having sex because I wanted it. I have for a few months, and my boyfriend said no, not yet and I understood why. He had his own reasons. But now that we are having sex it feels amazing, except I have a pain in the lower left part of my body. Right above my leg, and it hurts bad when he...thrusts. And each time pain gets worse.

I don't think this is normal.
Seeings how I was a virgin before and so was he, we have no experience.

I just really want to know if this is normal, or what.

WildChild

It could be that you have a tilted uterus and he's hitting a sensitive spot. If you try different positions you will find what works best for you. There are no right or wrong posistions - just ones that work for you and ones that don't. Try laying on your side spooning or doggie style. Him on top with your legs over his shoulders will change his angle of thrust, there's a lot of ways your bodies can fit together and you have just keep trying. Make a game of it, a different position every time? Have fun, be safe.

latte_lover

I have always had the same problem.

I'm 20. All the research I've been doing seems to point to Endometriosis, STI's, or ovarian cysts, but it's really frustrating because I never get any of the other symptoms. The only guy I've been with was a virgin and we still used condoms, so I know I don't have an STI. I have a normal menstural cycle, and I don't even get cramps on my period. I do have minor scoliosis, so it make sense for the uterus to be a little tilted... I am really relieved to read WildChild's response. It makes sense.

I have pain in the exact same place, too, but on the lower right. It's a very difficult to describe feeling, just very deep and painful. And yeah, sex is great, but I feel like every time he goes deep the pain sort of resets the whole sexual experience and it takes a while to get turned on again. It's been impossible to have an orgasm. We have tried quite a few positions but it always hurts, as much as I enjoy it on an emotional level.

Let me know if you find anything that works for you.

Dollface2008

It may just be because you haven't had a great deal of sex before so your body is trying to adapt. I remember the first couple of times I had sex it was pretty painful and not very pleasureful. Like for instance it could be that maybe his penis is bigger and your not very stretched out. But a few things to try maybe like she suggested up there to try different positions. Or also maybe have him finger you more before you have sex, so that it loosens you up more. I don't know how experienced your bf is but usually 2 fingers does a good job of preping you for intercourse. I have also found sometimes I get cramps in that area when I've been straining myself to stay at a certain angle because the penetration is good there. I often cramp at the top of my leg when we do missionary and I wrap my legs around him. Hope that helped!

lolabug

when i lost mine it was scary but i had pain too i went to the doctor but he said it was because of the condom i never knew wat he meant but i am still trying to figure it out we use just trojan now and it made everything better

mewhenim

check with your doc to rule out endometriosis, also have your clotting factor checked, pain in the thighs could also be a dangerous clot, unlikely, but it happens to all ages

cassie66

at your age love your muc to young to be having sex. your bf is trather old for you dont you think? i certainly wouldnt let my 17 yrs old have sex let alone a younger one try concentrate on your school work

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Your just being a "mum"...... Cassie.

I think it's great that you were 14 when you met, nearly 15 and there's been no pressure, he actually said no to you as well, when you suggested it. You have a great boyfriend.

And, 16 is the legal age in lots of places.

Do you have a problem dietry? Like upset stomach as well? Sometimes it can also be a lot of wind, within you that remains and upsets your stomach and it effects exactly where you are stating, and with intercourse... You may need to watch what you are eating if you feel that this sounds a little like what happens to you...

Tilted Uterus also can be the problem, or both, but this isn't something that stays for ever, just ask your boyfriend to be gentle when you feel this and move positions.

CW

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