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    Question how to ride...


    okay i know it sounds silly. but seriously i cant ride my boyfriend to save
    my life. and its really annoying, can anyone give me any pointers? im really
    trying to make our sex more enjoyable. thanks.
    [free my cnote]b0dy and s0le[sneaker.freaker]


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    When you say you can't ride him that could really mean different things, be more specific if you can?

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    If your referring to being on top then all I can say is practice! I couldn't get the hang of it at first, couldn't get a rhythm and it wasn't nice for either of us. I lost my confidence with it soon after and didn't want to do it much but he encouraged me to keep trying (obviously he wouldn't mind the practice if I improved)

    I kept trying and usually we have the best sex with me on top woo.
    Try doing it to music, I find you naturally go along with it...just me? :P

    And also i find it easier if he's sat up so he can kiss me, my neck, pull my hair a little...makes it all the more lusty and I get into it more
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    riding your partner. hmmmm one of the best things is a woman on top.
    i say this because of a few reasons.

    1st reason i believe the woman has control, deeper penetration and she can have the rhythm that fits her. She can grind or bounce, mix it up anyway she wants. if she wants fast she will. if she wants slow, she will. this position gives her what she wants and controls it. take the pressure off us guys to find that rhythm.

    2nd reason is that i also find seeing she has control and all, she also can maneuver around and sort of guide the penis to hit her spots. she can tighten up more if she wants too. and all along with that going on, the guy can use his hands to caress your hips, chest, back, thighs, and even pull your hair or spank you a lilttle on the butt.
    thats why i love a woman on top, my hands can be in many places do many thing things for more excitement.

    now to answer your question and try to give you pointers.
    try while you are on him to move forward and backward while arching your back a bit on the forward motion. mix it up a bit with swiveling your hips. go slow at first and find a rhythm that you are comfy with. in time you will improve.
    instead of just the grind technique, try to rise up and slid down on him. go up and down also.
    use your imagination and each time things will improve. thats what so good about sex, you can only improve each time.
    watch a porn flick to see how they do it and try what they do.
    use music, a decent beat will make it more natural and less pressure on you.
    once you find what is working and natural, you will both enjoy it so much more.

    hope this was a bit helpfull.

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    Angel7_Girl, I have the same feeling. I think it completely from lack of practice! It always looks so easy on TV

    I agree with the music suggestion ... it has worked for me in past encounters. I think part of my problem is that my current (and longterm) boyfriend is on the small side. Does anyone have advice for riding a smaller penis?

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    IN NEED. i was talking about girl on top, riding his penis.
    ill try doing it to music, perhaps it will be easier. oh and
    just to fill you guys in i try to go up and down like sliding
    myself on him but its so dificult so he has to put in all the
    work and according to JWB_POF and many others
    that just ends the point
    of him being able to relax.
    [free my cnote]b0dy and s0le[sneaker.freaker]


    1 yr and 4 months

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    Just get some exercise and be wary of the angle you're putting the guys' penis.... Some guys can be bent around all over the shop, and others can't. The wrong angle meaning discomfort and pain - and rather poor sex.

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    Perhaps to get the proper rhythm, use your hands to sort of brace your partner at first, and slowly establish YOUR rhythm, then go a little more hands off, the position I could imagine being a little bit akward or uncomfortable at first, but you'd be sort of down in his face and that (at least in my encounters) is enjoyable too..

    hope it helps, just keep an open mind, remember its fun for ~both~ of you, be open, talk about it, trust each other for honest feedback!
    "We easily see what is done to us,
    Before we see what we are doing to our mate!"

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    thanks. i understand what your saying.
    but where do i put my hands? and im
    suppose to go back and forth or up and down?
    so confused...
    [free my cnote]b0dy and s0le[sneaker.freaker]


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    Try moving at about a 45 degree angle towards his head - half way between straight up and down, and forward / back.

    It can work with you facing either his head or his feet, but the angles are a bit better if you are facing his head.

    At least at first move slowly. Part of the fun for him can be the slow teasing motion.

    If you don't object, porn movies give examples - probably best to see amateur ones with real people doing fun things, not the over-acted exaggerated pro ones.

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