I need some words of wisdom from sensual, seductive ladies.....I never had anyone, i.e., mom, sister, sister-in-law, teach me about things like wearing pretty panties that make you feel sexy, or how to be sexy, or anything like that. I've got a pretty good grasp on things for the most part, but I want to be more seductive, think Sex in the City....how do you learn things like this?

I would say that some good learning tools are magazines like Playboy and Hustler, romance novels can sometimes get the imagination going, videos from the adult store or even the ones on pay-per-view channels, and even online websites that are adult oriented.

You might even try going to a upper class strip club. Make sure it is an upper class club! Meet some of the girls. See how they move, dress, carry themselves, and talk. Maybe get a dance from one you think is attractive. They are perfect examples of being sexy and sensual.

I heard that taking pole dancing classes will make your whole appearance more sensual and seductive... it's supposed to change the way you move.

I also know that if you're wearing clothes that you think look very sexy on you, will make you act entirely different. So just find one of two pieces that look smashing, and that you feel comfortable in, and then go out and blow everybody away

I have also been thinking along the same lines and it sure would help to have a munual to help us gals along the way. I went in to the local book shop and found that there are some fun and interesting books out there.
Try and think about what you find sexy and stimulating and it might help you find the diva in you .