21 Married 1 Child No Sex... Whats Wrong With Me???

Huntersmom91107 · 11-14-2008, 07:09 PM

I just had a baby and have been under alot of stress lately. My husband and I have had sex only 6 times this year... It's already November! Only 6 times...
My poor husband. I love him so much, sometimes I actually wish he'd go somewhere else...
Crazy I know. But I just have not been in ANY MOOD for sex, kissing or cuddling
I've also found that I've never really ever likes sex. Just the idea of it scares me...
Truth is, I was raped by a group when I was younger and just turned away from it. I noticed that I liked sex when we were trying to have a baby but now that we have our son it's just not happening...

And PS, I've NEVER had an orgasm

What is wrong? Is there anything that I can do? Is there anything that he can do? Any suggestions? Please. I love my husband and I dont want him to leave because of this... So far he has been EXTREAMLY understanding and is very willing to take things slow, but I love him so much and he shouldnt have to be married to an already sexually dry 21 year old...

Has anyone ever had the same problem?

no_desire33 · 11-19-2008, 08:32 AM

I have yet to receive an orgasm myself!! so, I really have nothing to look forward to during sex.. since we don't have sex often, we have forgotten what each of us likes.. I totally understand what you are going through..

My husband is understanding also.. but seriously, how much more of this can he take!?? I feel really awful... is sex disgusting to you also?? like, does looking at his penis make you wanna vomit?? that's how I fell and I know it sounds awful...

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11-14-2008, 07:09 PM	#1
Huntersmom91107 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Houston Texas Posts: 8	21 Married 1 Child No Sex... Whats Wrong With Me??? I just had a baby and have been under alot of stress lately. My husband and I have had sex only 6 times this year... It's already November! Only 6 times... My poor husband. I love him so much, sometimes I actually wish he'd go somewhere else... Crazy I know. But I just have not been in ANY MOOD for sex, kissing or cuddling I've also found that I've never really ever likes sex. Just the idea of it scares me... Truth is, I was raped by a group when I was younger and just turned away from it. I noticed that I liked sex when we were trying to have a baby but now that we have our son it's just not happening... And PS, I've NEVER had an orgasm What is wrong? Is there anything that I can do? Is there anything that he can do? Any suggestions? Please. I love my husband and I dont want him to leave because of this... So far he has been EXTREAMLY understanding and is very willing to take things slow, but I love him so much and he shouldnt have to be married to an already sexually dry 21 year old... Has anyone ever had the same problem?

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11-19-2008, 08:32 AM	#2
no_desire33 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 12	I have yet to receive an orgasm myself!! so, I really have nothing to look forward to during sex.. since we don't have sex often, we have forgotten what each of us likes.. I totally understand what you are going through.. My husband is understanding also.. but seriously, how much more of this can he take!?? I feel really awful... is sex disgusting to you also?? like, does looking at his penis make you wanna vomit?? that's how I fell and I know it sounds awful...