When I was younger I would date guys that would try to find "it", I had no idea what they were even looking for so suprise suprise it was not found. Later on I discovered it through masturbation, and it didnt do so much for me at first "this is the big deal?" I remember thinking. But I continued to explore it, different pressures, angles, etc and whoa. I discovered what so many are raving about. When arroused, stimulating this area on me creates the most intense and long lasting orgasm. I don't think if I would have ever enjoyed as much had I not first explored it myself.

My boyfriend always gets it just right with his fingers or when he is inside me and I am able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation - although that is the literal cherry on top of the sundae so its always more nice with it.

I agree with these posters on not worrying about it too much, before I experienced it for myself I was 110% satisfied with clitoral orgasms and wasn't seeking anything any different. Just the fact that you are considerate enough to care how pleasurable her orgasms are is boyfriend of the year material.

Give her time to get more comfortable with you, at 2 months you have barely scratched the surface. Women tend to get more adventerous and curious about sexual exploration the longer we are with someone.