whatever is everyones opinion i personally make little noise and find it a little embrassing to say what i like and i dont like to groan too much in case bf isnt into it what about everyone else

I love when my wife talks dirty and tells me what she wants. I think it's very hot. Love making is supposed to be a passionate thing, so why just lay there like a log? Moaning and groaning is good too, it means someone is doing the right thing (unless you are faking, but I am sure that there is a thread for that somewhere around here).

I think when you have a bf, steady partner, you will know what he likes and doesn't like and you can be freer to be who you are.

From reading your other threads, it just may be that you haven't connected to someone that you really like and want to spend months with as a bf again if you had before, and therefore you are "shy" around the new guys you are entering into your life.

You should always be you.

CW

I've been told to shut up more times than I can count! They say all the moaning and carrying on gets them off quicker! LOL! I have no inhibiions in that sense at all... because think of it like this.. it shoudl be about YOUR pleasure as well! Otherwise.. what's the point?? It's easy as pie for a guy to get off but for a woman?? Takes a lot more time and finesse! Bu I digress.. we were talking about sounds. I LOVE making noise. Lets your partner know what's working. I also dirty talk too but I think that's a whole different thread that's on here.

Let him know that what he's doing rocks your world!

I love it when I'm into it enough to really let a lot of moaning out. To some degree in the initial stages I purposefully moan to give my boyfriend encouragement when he's doing something I really like, but once it gets REALLY good it just comes out naturally.

Lol, after my first couple times my lover said he was disappointed that I didn't scream. So we had a few month long game, he tried to make me lose control while I had to try and maintain it. It really added a lot, we brought quite a few things into the mix. I do have a hard time saying what I like, but little noises are fine. Ask your boyfriend! If both of you have a hard time saying what you like it won't be as good.