Please give me a genuine answer.
will you allow your young wife to enjoy sex with a girl?
if she is secretly involved thinking you never knew this.

So for the readers, your first Post was " Can a girl be attracted to a girl"... " I have something to share"


Now you are asking if a young wife can enjoy being with another girl, but that of which you are secretly involved with but he doesn't know.

I i think you know that you can be attracted to a girl and obviously you are.

You need to think if your husband is adventurous and can handle this sort of thing
or not...

You can't tell him if he is against this sort of thing and you don't want him to jump and diss you as a wife, and take it to other levels.

Why have you become attracted to this woman? what is it that has triggered your desire, do you love your husband and this is a fase or are you smitten?

Helps to give more information.

And it is ok to do so , we don't know you.

CW

Only if I was a part of what was going on. If she can touch, so can I. There are to be no unequal rules. If she isn't comfortable with your touching other people she cannot expect for you to be comfortable with her. I read stories where the woman wants another involved, but won't allow him to kiss her, touch her, etc. And I think that is basically a form of abuse.

If I wasn't aware........ I think I'm one of the less forgiving in this area, I won't just laugh about it and brag to my friends like many men will, if I wasn't a part of it I would indeed be quite angry. Women expect far too much leeway in this regard.

Think about how you would react if he asked to be 'involved' with anoter man. What is the difference between the two?

I wouldn't mind, but I'd much prefer if she told me. Of course I'd prefer even more if I was invited to join (I am a guy after all).

I don't view it very differently from a relationship with another man - but that doesn't bother me either. (though I would not want to join in that case)

Yes. My wife has been very open about her bisexuality since before I met her and I haven't (to the best of my knowledge) ever hampered her quest to continue sleeping with other women.

I do agree that whats good for the goose is good for the gander and all that. However, if I am involved with another and I don't want my partner involved whats wrong with that? Get your own. If it's a threesome then fine, I have no right to ask my partner to not touch but not every encounter outside a relationship is about a threesome or more.

Think about how you would react if he asked to be 'involved' with anoter man. What is the difference between the two? [/quote]
Exactly. If one asks to play outside the relationship one should be prepared to "allow" all to play. Again though, it doesn't necessarily mean that if a someone agrees to let their partner play they absolutely have to be part of it or no deal.

Uneeklyme, I guess I made it sound like everything has to be group activity.

What I meant more specifically, is that if the woman wants to sleep with another woman, she has no right to complain if her man sleeps with another woman, or man. There isn't a special rule that allows one sided playing around for bi women. So she needs to think about if she can handle that, if she can, fine, if she can't then she either needs to remain faithful or end the relationship.