Alright, so, I consider myself to be relatively well read and to know what's going on. However, I'm laying the cards down: I honestly don't know what's going on/if there's anything to do. Here's the situation:

I'm with a girl who actually ejaculates. Yeah, I've seen a lot, but this was a first for me (I'm a guy). She mentioned that she ejaculates before, and a healthy amount of fluid comes out. That's fine, in fact, I think that's really cool. She gets an intense orgasm, has to put a pillow over her face because of excessive vocalization, grabs my arm with triple her normal strength, etc. Sounds all good, right? More demonstrative than a lot of other women I've known.

However, the problem is, she says that she's only orgasmed when she's used her rabbit, to quote her: "I've come with lots of guys, but never orgasmed". I questioned her, and she says that there's a big difference from how she feels during sex vs. the rabbit. I vaguely recalled the difference between clit orgasms and g-spot orgasms, some people can prefer, etc. So, as far as I can figure out, she has orgasmed before, and did with me. However, she's chasing clitoral orgasm, which is different. The question is, aside from foreplay and such, is there any recommended ways to achieve clitoral orgasm during intercourse? I can hold off for a long time, and she did ejaculate twice or three times during the actual intercourse, with requisite vaginal contractions, etc.

Any tips for intercourse stimulation? I figure I'll have to witness the rabbit vs. the sex; she says she doesn't ejaculate with her rabbit orgasms. Anyway, I have my own ideas, but I'm ready to get some help here. I've never personally experienced much of this problem before. I'm normally good a clit stimulation without thinking about it, and quite skilled at the g-spot, but this has never been a conscious thing for me.
Thanks everyone,
Experience DOESN'T give answers

Well,,, first of all research has shown that using a vibrator can reduce a woman's sensitivity, so frequent use of the rabbit may be contributing to the problem. Being over focused on it may also inhibit response. Check out Drs Vera and Steve Bodansky's books, they are informative and present some different ways of thinking about this. Only 30% of women cum regularly during intercourse so she's ahead of the crowd all ready.

Yeah, I did think that about the vibrator. She also JUST got out of a relationship she'd been in for 3 years, with a guy that never succeeded in bringing her to any orgasm. She never had a vaginal with a guy, but succeeded in clitoral by herself. She's apparently had plenty of success (before me) with cumming. I've never really had a problem with a dissatisfied partner, though I never deeply investigated whether they had drastically different clitoral and vaginal orgasms. There was no overfocus on getting that from her- way too much fun to get hung up on that. But, it would be nice to be able to do that. I was also curious if anyone had every experienced this. Everything went out the window when she told me I needed to put a towel on the bed...

Tell her to stop using the rabbit for a while. When a woman is that highly sexed, what I normally do (I mean did, when I was single) is give her a clitoral orgasm through oral, then while she's after-glowing from that, we start having normal intercourse, and a lot of times she'll come again from that. I don't think I've ever been with a woman who wasn't satisfied with that approach. Most women will come from oral, and once they've done that, something happens to their vagina, it's like they're hungry for the feeling of penetration.

It comes down to knowing what your mouth is good for and what your c*ck is good for, and when to use each. Knowing how to use your hands is also helpful. Try going in doggie-style and then reaching around. It's a hard position to maintain but when it works the results are spectacular.

Up against a machine, your hosed!

Thanks guys. I'll try some of those things. I've never had a problem making a woman feel VERY satisfied from sex, and the current one is no exception. However, she's talked about how amazing she finds clitoral vs. vaginal orgasm, and she just hasn't had clitoral with a guy, so it may also be the curiosity factor. Again, probably what led me awry was when she was having me finger her, I attempted to go for clit (both other hand and mouth) as well as g-spot, hit the g, and she was impressed I knew her g-spot! So, from what I gather... she'd be unaware of a guy getting her g-spot, OR... she'd cum from vaginal intercourse WITHOUT g-spot stimulation, but also without clitoral... I'm really going to have to get the specifics nailed down.

Yeah, and I would have given my all on the oral, but when I was fingering her I was also giving some oral too, and she wouldn't let me stay down there for the fountain effect- she insisted. So, I will redouble effort on sole clit stimulation after I witness her with the rabbit, and get her off that thing. Thanks all for the advice, and any more will definitely be helpful.

Well to answer your question about clit orgasm during intercourse i would say best bet is when she's on top and just rubbing really fast, it gives alot of friction on the clit and is prob the easiest way for her to have clitoral orgasm while having intercourse,

but i think best way to give clitoral orgasms is the tounge.