Thread: Sex after pregnancy?

Obviously I am talking from the other side. Sex was definatley the furthest thing from my wifes mind during her 2 pregnancies. The Dr. actually tells you that sex is a good thing for a prgnant woman. But it is very awkward for both sides. It gets worse the further the pregnancy goes 9for obvious reasons). As far as after the birth, it takes some time before you can get back in the water. Even then you have to be careful and go slowly. My wife even had some pain when we started to have sex again. Also I noticed that the neighborhood had changed down there (but I guess after you pass a bowling ball through there that's kind of expected). But still after 2 kids my wife enjoys sex and still has the ability to have multi's. One change is that her boobs are very sensitive and most times out of play. The biggest problem for us is time. With 2 little ones running around, it always has to be at night. By that time she is tired from playing mom all day, I know it's not easy. whenever I am on vacation, it seems like I am running back to work run it's over. So you lose those spontanous afternoon or morning sessions that you had/have when there are no kids around. I am sure some of the mothers around here will be able to give you some more detailed info that you might be looking for. This is strictly from the fathers point of view.