Hi Ladies/Gents

Hope I can have some help here. I`h few queries being new to sex and I`ll put them one by one just to get better understanding of each aspect.

Intially when I started sex, I ejaculate very quickly, even during foreplay or even at the time of penetration. Later on, I`h to struggle to turn me on myself, what i did that i tried to insert my xxx even in normal form (not aroused) and it went it very easily and I startede stroking, I never feel any hardness, It was by the end of the my ejaculation that I feel it for few seconds, and my honey never reached orgasm.

I don`t need to use any lubricant as honey is normally wet enough during foreplay and even I able to get her orgasm after trying 3-4 times. At least, during our 3rd attempt, she is all over.

My only concern is that I don`t get the hardness ? How can I overcome that ?

I am not sure if I am able to put my point here clearly or not ?

Looking forward for your kind assistance here.

Thanks in advance !

I would help us Tenstion if you tell us how your aprox age and maybe if you will, whether you masturbate or not and how you respond to this. If you are taking any kind of meds and so on.

Normally, at least it's been my experience it's kind of hard to penetrate when you are not hard, semi hard yes but if you are just limp **** ??????

True she will probably never orgasm with just a few seconds. Of course you say after 3 times or so she does, so to me I'm wondering, do you mean you penetrate 3 seperate times and cum ea. time or what?

We need a little more info?

I am 30. I used to do lots of masterbation and enjoy it but the frequency of that masterbation is not that much precumm. I used to precum quite frequently. I don`t have that precumm situation after my first sexual interaction. I am not taking any medicine or I`h never taken any medicine for sexual purpose at all.

Yes, with semi hard, I can penetrate provided she is wet, but overall it was weired for me. What do u mean, if I`h limp/ing etc. ?


Yes, Penerate at 3 different times, let say within 1 - 2 hrs time and cum during each time and she only reach orgasm normally during 3rd attempt.

I don`t know how to explain things here. she is a bit younger than me but we both were virgins.

Why not start with a visit to the urologist and get a complete physical check up? Find out if there is a physical reason why you cannot get a full erection.