you know, i feel sorry for myself.
I love my husband who is a greaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat man but he has almost no sex drive.
When i have my monthly friend, i still have such high drive and since he doesn't want to have sex during my cycle i always offer him a bj or a handjob but he never wants it.

I hate how i try and try and he refuses, saying, " I dont want to take advantage of you" but how is it advantage? i want to give.

I try to do different stuff and touch him but he laughs at me. I hate having sex with my husband. He does not want to try anything new and wants to hold no conversation about sex and what i like or what he likes.

I left him, tried counselling, got a checkup from a doctor and still nothing.

you know i feel so friggin sorry for myself. I am stuck in a relationship with a man that i love as a best friend, yet i will never experience a really fun sex life.

He has been my only sex partner and I hate how i will never experience fun sex.
I guess its my problem. I just wanted to vent.

"I love a man as my best friend"...in my opinion that should go hand in hand with romantic love in a relationship and if one is missing then...I don't know hun. I would say stick with counceling and hopefully it will all work out for you. Good luck!