Thread: Big age gap!

An older guy who has any class at all would never hit on a younger woman. You are going to have to make the first move. Or at least drop some hints and hope he catches on, but it sounds like you've already done that.

Once a guy hits 40 or so, he figures the young girls just see him as invisible, or at best as a trusted authority figure (i.e., teacher, boss at work, etc.). Most guys are just too decent to cross that line.

But older guys fantasize about younger women all the time, or just look at naked pictures of them on the 'net and reminisce about the old days.

So, yeah, you have a shot here. Definitely. But don't do it openly, and don't do anything that would become fodder for office gossip. Ask him out to lunch and make the next move in private.