Thread: Will I hurt him if I do this?

My boyfriend asked me to do something I've never done before with any previous partners. To be blunt he asked me to sit on his face, with all of my weight while he does oral on me, and even bounce on him a bit while I'm there. I don't know how I feel about having his nose right in my backside for starters....I mean it can't smell like roses. And on top of it, I just picture his head squashing, or his nose breaking or him smothering to death. In his opinion once I try it I should love t, but it just doesn't feel right. Will I hurt him? Am I just over thinking this? Has anyone here had any experience with this? help please!

Does he do oral on you normally? Like...when your laying down or whatever? Are you comfortable with that?
No real difference from the other way.... His tongue still hits the same spot!
And if you sit so you are facing him, not away from him...then his nose wouldn't be in your butt.
And you can always monitor yourself, how much weight you put on him (crikey, I wouldn't be putting my whole weight on...I'd be scared to smother him too!LOL).
Never know....you might like it.

But just do what you feel comfortable with.
Could always have a shower first, give it a go & if it doesn't feel right...jump off & say No!

Just add weight gradually, make sure he can signal you if it is too much (tap you with his hand if he is smothered and can't talk). Like many fantasies, he may find that reality isn't as much fun as he hopes, but maybe he (and you) will really like it.

Thanks for the responses. He was very insistant he wanted full weight...as in sitting on his face with my legs out in front of me. He says he likes the pressure and insists if i try it I won't hurt him. It's just...everything goes through my mind that could go wrong. What if if ...toot...for gosh sakes when and if I climax and he'd be right at ground zero. I'd want to die. Has anyone actually done this before...full weight and all?

I know I love the sensation of a mans weight on top of me, ok it's not on my face but I've had a guy trying to hold his weight on his elbows and I'm telling him not to worry just put all his weight on my body - I actually like the pressure and the feeling of being pinned down! Seems to me your guy is turned on by that sort of idea too! I think you should place your trust in him and at least try it, if you don't like it just don't do it again!

There's a possibility that close proximity with your backside is what he's trying to achieve. Are you both comfortable with anal sex, or has it never been an issue for you? Personal hygiene is very important during any kind of anal play, some people find a shower is enough, some people go further and have an anal douche.

Originally Posted by Eloise23

What if if ...toot...for gosh sakes when and if I climax and he'd be right at ground zero. I'd want to die. Has anyone actually done this before...full weight and all?

Well, maybe he's into that

And don't just jump on his head. Start out slow and gradually shift weight off your legs, if he wants you to stop just make sure he says something or taps your leg.

Actually, this is something I've heard of/read about before. He gets off on being smothered. It puts you into control. As such, use that control to make sure you don't hurt him. Explain your fears to him and say that you are just not comfortable doing it to the full extent that he wants. If he's a good guy, he'll accept that.

get a plastic bat, bang his face with it and let him know that how it feels down there between you legs, the next day your sore, and it hurts to walk the next day. lets see how he likes it.
just kidding, let him know how you feel.

hello ladies, from a mans view its great! My wife and i have done this kind of thing alot. She says it opens her bdy to me by having her legs spread over my face < faceing forward>. And it does. She gets to orgasam very fast if i let her or we can make it last. He should be able to stimulate you with his fingers while also doing the oral thing. Give it a try we love it!