No Orgasm During Sex - WHYYY?

10-28-2006, 01:00 PM

Well this is quite an embarrasing topic to bring up.. but here goes anyway..

My boy friend and I became sexually active earlier this year but even until today I have not had an orgasm during sex

When we do other "stuff" I do get orgasms (great ones!!) but never during sex... WHY IS THAT?? The whole feeling is great while we are into it.. but I never reach the climax.. he does all the time... Fyi.. we use condoms..

Please help me out.. is somethign wrong with me? Am I not doing something right!!?!

Thanx,
Daisy

**AFemaleProdigy** · 11-06-2006, 09:24 PM

There is nothing wrong with you. That is very common in women. It could be due to your frame of mind during sex, the sensations, or just that you are not getting stimulated in the way you need to in order to reach orgasm. The best thing to do is not think about the orgasm or stress about it during sex as this will just making it harded to reach climax. Try to find some new things that really get you excited. Experiment. Don't rush the sex. Try to get your man to make it last longer. Go back and forth between oral and sex. When you are close to coming, switch back to intercourse and see if you can come that way. Many women have to use vibrators for clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm during sex.

Betty9674 · 02-07-2010, 04:22 PM

Get him to rub the nub but very gentaly!

10-28-2006, 01:00 PM	#1
imported_dairygirl Guest Posts: n/a	No Orgasm During Sex - WHYYY? Well this is quite an embarrasing topic to bring up.. but here goes anyway.. My boy friend and I became sexually active earlier this year but even until today I have not had an orgasm during sex When we do other "stuff" I do get orgasms (great ones!!) but never during sex... WHY IS THAT?? The whole feeling is great while we are into it.. but I never reach the climax.. he does all the time... Fyi.. we use condoms.. Please help me out.. is somethign wrong with me? Am I not doing something right!!?! Thanx, Daisy

11-06-2006, 09:24 PM	#2
AFemaleProdigy Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 885 Blog Entries: 1	There is nothing wrong with you. That is very common in women. It could be due to your frame of mind during sex, the sensations, or just that you are not getting stimulated in the way you need to in order to reach orgasm. The best thing to do is not think about the orgasm or stress about it during sex as this will just making it harded to reach climax. Try to find some new things that really get you excited. Experiment. Don't rush the sex. Try to get your man to make it last longer. Go back and forth between oral and sex. When you are close to coming, switch back to intercourse and see if you can come that way. Many women have to use vibrators for clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm during sex. __________________ ~Jessica

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02-07-2010, 04:22 PM	#3
Betty9674 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 22	Get him to rub the nub but very gentaly!