Thread: Young and no sex drive anymore...

I wish I could help, but I'd just like you to know that I'm suffering from the exact same thing and I'm only 20. I had sex every day for a about a year, and all of a sudden it just stopped.. same boyfriend, healthy relationsihp, nothing wrong in my life. It just went away entirely, and he's been frantically trying to find the reasons for it, and I tried to explain to him that this just happens to some people and they don't know why. At least we're not alone! I'm really hoping that my sex drive will come back someday as easy as it went away.

I'm glad to know that I'm not the one but I hate that you're having the same problem. I wish I could explain it! Doctors seem to act like I'm crazy when I try to talk to them. They look at me like I'm completely stupid. I hope your problems get better!

Wow... I never thought that there would be this many girls having the same issues as I am. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and like most of you have said, our sex life has been amazing. I used to think it was unusual for me to enjoy sex as often as I did. But for the past few months, I haven't been able to enjoy it at all. Now my boyfriend and I are having problems because he feels it's his fault, or that I am not attracted to him, and that's FAR from the truth. And he just doesn't understand what's going on (but neither do i...)
I was on Nuvaring and stopped taking that, in case that was the problem, but so far nothing has changed.
I want to talk to a doctor or someone about it, but I don't know how to go about doing that, and I'm not sure if it would even help. I've been looking around for vitamins or "enhancement" pills of some sort, but I don't even know if those things work, and most of them seem to target women with menopause...

I know exactly what you all are going through. I'm 29 years old and have been with my man for 5 years. Sex was crazy for the first 3 1/2 years and then all of a sudden things started going down hill. We went from have sex 6+ times a week to 1 time every 2 or 3 weeks. I have no desire what so ever to have sex. I'm not horny at all and I guess you can say that I have to be "jump started". I do orgasim, but I still wouldn't say that I'm really all that horny.
I have gone for blood work, and the doc said everything was fine. I asked if there was some kind of medication that can be taken and he said "if you were a man we'd be able to give you something but unfortunately, since you're a woman there really isn't anything you take."
My relationship is in a downward spiral. he thinks I've lost interest in him and I haven't I still love him as much today as I did 5 years ago. He is getting ready to kick me to the curb because I guess he's frustrated and can't handle it any more. He's unhappy, he won't even cuddle with me and it seems as though he tries his hardest to avoid me at all cost. He won't even wrap his arms around me in bed any more.
I too am on Yasmine and have been on it for god, a really long time. I'm starting to think that I'm stressed and getting a little depressed.