need help big problem!!!!!!

11-05-2006, 11:36 AM

hi, i nam new to this wenbsite.Never tjough i would be posting questions an it wither but i need help. i have been married for a couple mof weeks now. but i am still a virgin in the tecnical sense......i have big problems hope someone out there can help. everytime he is about to go inside it hurts and i start crying its umcorfortable it is almost like he does not fit there ?i dont knoe what to do i have thought maybe i am not aroused and i am not because i am so worry and nervous> i start to wiggle aoround, he cant seem to find the place if you know what i mean?

! and i cant relax>>> is it normal to feelthe discomfort and almost pain. i mean i know it is. i have start to thoink that i am not normal down there. he says i am its just in my head. he is being so patient. but the question is is there really that much pain or is this jsut in my head??? please help me any comments questions suggestions will be welcome.. i am really desperate ( the situatkion is so ridiculous is almost laughble)

11-06-2006, 12:41 AM

it's not rediculous, alot of women are very nervous during their first time. Do you have an idea of how big his penis is? if he's large it is going to hurt no matter what you do. take things very very slow and don't let him put his penis all the way in the begining. just lets things ease their way in if you know what i mean

Also, about an hour before you plan on having sex i would take a over the counter pain reliever, it may help you relax and reduce the pain.
I would say if you're still having alot of problems with it after more tries to see a doctor if you can. i've heard of some women having a thick hymen that is hard to break. they could symply cut the hymen in the doctors office and use a pain reliever.

11-05-2006, 11:36 AM	#1
imported_isis0101 Guest Posts: n/a	need help big problem!!!!!! hi, i nam new to this wenbsite.Never tjough i would be posting questions an it wither but i need help. i have been married for a couple mof weeks now. but i am still a virgin in the tecnical sense......i have big problems hope someone out there can help. everytime he is about to go inside it hurts and i start crying its umcorfortable it is almost like he does not fit there ?i dont knoe what to do i have thought maybe i am not aroused and i am not because i am so worry and nervous> i start to wiggle aoround, he cant seem to find the place if you know what i mean? ! and i cant relax>>> is it normal to feelthe discomfort and almost pain. i mean i know it is. i have start to thoink that i am not normal down there. he says i am its just in my head. he is being so patient. but the question is is there really that much pain or is this jsut in my head??? please help me any comments questions suggestions will be welcome.. i am really desperate ( the situatkion is so ridiculous is almost laughble)

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11-06-2006, 12:41 AM	#2
imported_Plzdiesara Guest Posts: n/a	it's not rediculous, alot of women are very nervous during their first time. Do you have an idea of how big his penis is? if he's large it is going to hurt no matter what you do. take things very very slow and don't let him put his penis all the way in the begining. just lets things ease their way in if you know what i mean Also, about an hour before you plan on having sex i would take a over the counter pain reliever, it may help you relax and reduce the pain. I would say if you're still having alot of problems with it after more tries to see a doctor if you can. i've heard of some women having a thick hymen that is hard to break. they could symply cut the hymen in the doctors office and use a pain reliever.